Never Ask for a Phone Number
You don't ever want to ASK for a number; you appear as though the answer might be "No." You need to appear as though you naturally assume the answer is "Yes."
Saying "What is your phone number?" is definitely better than "Can I have your number?"
The most effective line I've come across is "Why don't you write down your phone number for me."
It sounds like you're asking them to give you their number, but you're actually TELLING them to give it to you.
It's so subtle it's almost never detected.
I Knew Better
I screwed up pretty badly with a girl recently, doing things I knew I shouldn't be doing. Too complimentary, too touchy-feely, too available, etc. There's no good excuse, I knew better.
She kicked me to the curb. All along I knew I was screwing up. But I ignored the little voice in my head that was telling me that. I was having too good a time to pay attention.
I haven't seen her since then, and it's because I finally decided to pay attention to my better judgment. I'm not gonna grovel, I'm gonna be a man and move on.
Now I'm at various stages with four other chicks. I don't know what's going to happen, but I'm playing things cooler. I know better than to keep acting like such a chump.
This time I'm listening!
How to Get More Dates
A study at the University of Oregon divided men into two groups based upon how often they dated (high-frequency daters and low-frequency daters). They brought these guys in and had them interact with women. Both the men and the women then filled out a number of evaluation forms.
The women, surprisingly, rated both groups of men about the same, being equally attracted to both the high-frequency daters and the low-frequency daters.
However, the low-frequency dating men underestimated how much the women liked them, and the high-frequency dating men overestimated how much they were liked by the women.
In other words, the high-frequency daters went on a lot of dates, not because they were, in some way, better than the low-frequency daters, but because their confidence (their belief that women liked them) enabled them to actually approach, talk to, and ask out the women that they were attracted to.
Always Leave Something at Her Place
Next time you stay at her place, remember to always "accidentally" leave something behind in which she will remember you by.
Think about it for a second. I bet a women has left an article of clothing behind at your place and whenever you saw it, you thought about her... right? You may have even gone as far as smelling her perfume on it which brought back memories of her!
So why not reverse this trick and use it to your advantage?
It will not only make her think about you every time she sees it, but it also sets things up a meeting for her to return it to you in the near future.
These best things I find to leave are your watch or your sweater that smells like your cologne. (A women recently told me she loved the smell of my cologne on my sweater and that she had actually slept with it beside her!)
Articles to avoid leaving are your wallet, cell phone, or anything that gives her too much information.
Try this out and I guarantee you will see the results!
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