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5 Tips on Increasing Confidence When Approaching Women

by Lily Anderton

Approaching members of the opposite sex can be challenging to a lot of men. This article gives some advice on how to increase your confidence when interacting with women.

1. Deal With Your Fear.

Acknowledge that what you're about to do isn't mission impossible. You meet new women and talk to them every day, whether it is someone at work or even just the girl on the till in Tesco's.

The problem isn't what you're about to do, it's how you see it. Overcoming shyness is all about understanding that the problem lies within your head.

2. Make Sure You Look Good.

This one is pretty self explanatory. Whether you buy a new suit, get a haircut or indulge in some new aftershave, if you look good, you feel good. The better you look the more confident you will feel, and this will show through to whoever it is you are trying to approach.

Confidence is sexy so just this simple point could be the step towards getting the girl.

3. Imagine the Worst That Could Happen.

To nearly all men, this would be the woman yelling at them or making them look stupid in front of the rest of the room. Now take a minute and think about it logically, realize that this is extremely unlikely to happen unless you either approach them at a bad time, or if you approach them with a horrifically cheesy chat up line or something equally as bad. This only leaves the very rare, completely random bad reaction that could happen to any man.

Letting this kind of fear stop you from approaching a woman you like is just as stupid as never crossing the road again for fear you may get hit by a bus.

4. Have Something Interesting to Say.

Relaying your day to day life with details on how often you feed your cat or what you had for breakfast are not good conversation topics. Make sure you have always got something interesting to say in order to keep the conversation flowing.

5. Seek Hypnosis.

If the above doesn't work for you there are other routes to go down. Many people nowadays are turning to hypnotherapy. This practice helps to address what it is that's causing the low self confidence and tells you what needs be done in order to turn it around.


Lily Anderton works for www.cityhypnosis.com who offer hypnosis services throughout London in order to help men with confidence and relationship issues. Visit the site and see how confidence hypnosis can help you get the girl of your dreams.