Keeping Your Confidence In Shape
Every DJ knows that confidence is everything when it comes to getting women.
One bad thing about confidence though is that you have to repeat that terrible step that made you a bit more confident -- over and over again.
I was diving from a high board at the swimming pool. The first few times I was like, "Man, what if this whole thing goes wrong and I never learn it?" However, I learned to dive by repeating it again and again that day. I dived a lot of times.
The next few times when I was at the swimming pool I thought, "I'll dive the next time or something." Two weeks later when I wanted to dive I was right at the beginning, nervous and thinking "What if this goes wrong?"
These days every time I go to the swimming pool I dive so many times like I'm an idiot. Every gap I can find I dive. If I stop doing it, I will be right back at the beginning. Like I haven't learned anything.
So remember that when you want to become confident you have to keep doing confident things over and over again.
Think of George McFly in "Back to the Future." The first time he hit Biff, he became very confident. However, that confidence was very short-lived because when another guy forced Lorraine to dance at the "Enchantment Under the Sea" dance, he was reluctant to do something about it. After he pushed that guy from Lorraine, he then stayed confident his whole life and wound up getting more out of life as a result.
Confidence is a positive feedback system. Do more and more confident things to get more and more confident. Also, you need to be more confident to do more things that take more confidence.
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