Easy Prey
I read an interesting study by a researcher who studied dating/mating habits at bars. She noticed that men were usually totally oblivious to the cues that women were sending them.
In other words, the typical guy goes to a bar and starts looking for the 9's and 10's. In the mean time, 6's, 7's, and 8's are sending signals of "approach me," but men don't even see them.
We may not recognize signals of receptivity, but when she slams the door in your face or gives you let's-just-be-friends signals, she is not easy prey. If you find yourself posting here, "I've done everything to get her to like me, I really like this girl, she has a boyfriend, I don't know what to do," ad nauseum, she is not easy prey... so MOVE ON.
A classic womanizer I know -- I'll call him the Aussie -- is juggling a half dozen women at any one time. If a girl at the club shines him on, he doesn't panic, he simply goes to his stable.
If he's been dating Jane, but she won't put out, he'll date and screw Mary, Helen, and Sue -- dating Jane in between and working on her to see if she'll come through. If Jane never gets on board and has sex with him, he dumps her, and another takes her place.
Notice that he never posts, "I'm crazy about Jane, but she says she still likes her boyfriend... what should I do?" He never cries at night, never sits at a bar fuming that Jane didn't show up. Jane's late arrival or non-arrival merely gives him the opportunity to flirt with a waitress and add her into his stable.
I'm convinced that the real womanizers seduce women who "fall into place," and although they may "work on" some girl who's dragging her heels, she's just one of several, not their only hope.
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