What Emotion Did You Create?
On your last date, what EMOTION did you create?
I’m a seriously intellectual kinda guy, and I have to be careful to remember that women are more EMOTIONAL.
I have ended dates with the knowledge that the only emotion she felt was THINKING.
So here’s my question: What emotion did you create on your last date?
A few possibilities...
1) FUN. She just plain had fun at the movie and I was easy to be around.
2) LAUGHTER. After a long week, can you make her laugh?
3) THE UNEXPECTED. Were you predictable or did you surprise her with something she’s never been exposed to (such as IMAX, a fondue restaurant, etc.)?
4) CHALLENGE. Did you establish right away that women do not control you with their manipulations?
5) STYLE. Did you look slightly different than other guys?
6) INTRIGUE. This is where she learns something dramatic about you (you’re thinking about joining the FBI) but you only divulge a small amount.
7) MENTAL STIMULATION. You show that you can think deeply but then switch to something less intense.
8) DIRECTION. Where are you headed and does that sound exciting to her?
Good luck!
Also see:
The Lazy Man’s Way