My 20 Small Talk Brain Topics

by A Turtle Name Adrian

1. Introduction: "hi, how are you"

2. Compliment: "that's a nice dress you're wearing"

3. Hot Buttons: comment & compliment on what she's wearing, carrying or saying 

4. The Situation: comment on where you're at, the situation around you 

5. Each Others Day: "how was your day, my day was fine, what cha do" 

6. School, Work, Career: anything on these topics

7. Interest & Hobbies: each others interests & hobbies 

8. In The News: what you heard or read in the news, a magazine

9. Other People: POSITIVE things about other people 

10. Music, TV., Movies: talking about songs, shows or movies you've seen or heard 

11. Upcoming Plans: what cha gonna do for thanksgiving, I'm going to ? during Christmas 

12. Family & Friends: talk about each others family & friends 

13. Jokes & Funny Stories: know any?

14. My Life: talk a little about your life and the direction you're going 

15. Likes & Dislikes: each other's likes & dislikes 

16. Childhood Dreams: what you wanted to be when you was a child 

17. Goals & Accomplishments: what you're both aiming for, what you both already achieve 

18. Hopes & Dreams: what do you both want NOW

19. You & Her: where does your relationship stand, is she ready to be yours 

20. Sex: so, do you wanna go upstairs and f**k. Just kiddin. Whatever on this topic.

Hope my 20 brain topics for those in need of help in topic searching. All these are stored in my brain in that exact order & when I run out of conversation & need a topic, I just pull one out. I usually try to start from the top & work my way down. But remember, these should only be discuss for so long (maybe 5 minutes or less), then you need to deepen the conversation. Get a little more personal like friendship, dating & love.

GOOD LUCK.