Friendship vs Let’s Just Be Friends
FRIENDSHIP -- Friendship is YOU & her being there for each other. Do for each other no matter what. She trusts you. You trust her. You two are inseparable & have many things in common with each other.
(example) - if you’re stuck somewhere in the rain in the middle of the night & need her to pick you up, she’s there without no doubt.
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Let’s Just Be Friend’s -- She has NO sexual feelings or interest in you. She finds you boring. She’ll use you to kill her boredom, but if she finds something to do she’ll drop yo ass like a bad habit. Sometimes she’ll feel guilty, but most of the time she doesn’t. She once thought of you sexually but no longer, due to either you not being what she expected. What she thought you was? You not taking her to the next level & not stimulating her mind. You don’t create electricity in her body. She once thought you could.
(example) - YOU: "would you like to go to a concert with me tonight" HER: "sorry, I already have a date tonight" - (she didn’t even ask what concert)
POINT: You want to build friendship before anything else. This is started off by finding out about her. About her interest, her hobbies, her career, her schooling, her likes & dislikes, her worries, her pains & understanding them, her wishes & dreams, & the type of man she desires. At the same time tell her a little about yourself. Your mission is to build a bridge between the both of you so you can have the opportunity to share each others worlds.
BEST WAY TO DO THIS: When meeting a girl for the first time that sets your temperature rising, kill those sexual feelings that you have, or at least try. See her as another human being & equal to you & try to make friendship with her. Don’t let her determine if you guys are going to be friends or not because if you do, you’re asking for her to call the shots. You’re the man! You call the shots.
Once you’ve developed friendship, ask to HANGOUT. Not get together but HANGOUT. Innocent stuff. That’s when you let her see what you have to offer without offering it. Be creative without showing off. Share your secrets with her. Show her you trust her & that you’re not out to get her in bed. Let HER make that move. If you have the patience. If you don’t, then do whatever you was doing.
MOST IMPORTANT: Be energetic, be happy, be creative in YOUR OWN WAY, have fun, be a "go for it" guy, be confident, be expressive, never second guess your decisions, be understanding.
After all these simple steps she should be all yours.
The Lazy Man’s Way