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Hold Women In Your Arms

And Super-Charge Your Social Life

by Fenderbendr

Ever wanted to hold lots of women in your arms, have them look into your eyes, and have them yearning for more?

Well, simple, learn to dance.

Dancing that involves social dancing. I'm not talking about loud disco clubs, but social dances like swing or any other where you can lead the women, spin her in the direction you desire, and have her looking deeply into your eyes.

I have only been dancing for a little more than a year now, and what a difference it has made in my social life. I was one of those "never dance dudes" cause it's just not cool. But let me tell you, a true Don Juan knows the act of seduction. And seduction through dance is just one avenue he has in his pocket.

Just the other night I went out with a date to this swing club. I could not believe how many single women were there at the club, along the wall just dying to be lead on to the dance floor. And being a true nice jerk, I left my date for a while and went over and danced with three lovely ladies (not all at once).

She Demanded I Dance With Her

Man did I have lots of fun! A few minutes later one of the girls walked over to our table, where I and my date were having a couple of drinks between dances, and she asked (more like demanded) that I dance with her. So being a cool jerk I did.

Now you might be thinking - what did that do?

It made my date think that I was in high demand. It planted a seed in my date's mind that, although she was with me, I could very easily select from many other women who would be more that happy to dance with me. It also demonstrated a dominance and confidence, and that I was there to have a very goood time... with my date or with other women.

And man, did it ever change my date's behavior that night. She was willing to do anything to please me and, believe me, she did just what I wanted her to do.

(Now I was not the only guy out there at the club. There were other guys there just drinking and watching!)

So the bottom line here is... learn to dance and the doors will open up to you. It will build confidence, keep you in top shape, and, most of all, have women ask you out.