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Nice Guys vs Jerks
As an actor I received a bit of attention, and toured for two years with a repertory theatre (we did 5 different shows in a week and move to the next town, and repeat them). One season I was cast in two "good guy leads", and one supporting "brooding bad guy" role. The girls ALWAYS went for the bad guy. I received SO MUCH attention on those Thursday nights it was unbelievable! Other than that part, I never (thank god) became the 'jerk'. Ya, There's this hot hot hot chick.. just amazing!!! Honestly she will destroy any model out there...... At first I'm talking to her and being all nice.. which she liked and we dated for 2 weeks... Kissing, flowers, etc.... then all of a sudden.. she started acting weird and was totally ignoring me... What do I do? I become even nicer to her.. she ignores me even more.. No phone calls... no dates.. I'm like what the fu*** did I do wrong.. So I said fuc** IT and started ignoring her. 4 days passed by and I was killing myself not to call her.. Guess what? She called me and wanted to go out... We went out and maked out... I heard through the grape vine from her best friend that and THE RULE OF THUMB OF MY LESSON.... "I'm too easy to get. I'm no challenge to her!" So I started acting like an asshole and totally trash talk her and flirt with other women in bars while she was right in front of my face.... Final ending... I have total control over her and she loves it... I consider myself a nice guy, and I know exactly what it's like. It's not always true, but I think that often the women feel that "Nice Guys" are the people they want to be friends with and thus aren't guys that they are attracted to. It's the Jerks that give off a more masculine stereotype, so women want them more as mates, more dominant, which is a characteristic trait of females of all species to look for. Thus the nice guy is just on a different level, which is why the Jerks are preferred subconsciously. The situation is very clear: women like jerks because they want to shape them in their image. Women that is their power. In a society where women have limited power--economic, social, political--their only option for control and power in the world is in their relationships. They all suffer from low self-esteem, and having the power in the relationship is the only way to prove themselves. To control -- "to tame the beast" -- is a woman's way to control her own life. By re-shaping her man, she is in effect giving her own self purpose and identity. Fortunately for men, since he is the only reason for her existence and identity, he can fool around with anyone he wants too, and have something to go home to also. The greatest example is Bill Clinton. Hillary would be nothing without him. He fools around. She knows it, but to divorce him, to distance herself from him, she wouldn't be The First Lady. All this goes to prove the point that women are pathetic creatures to begin with.
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