Nice Guys vs Jerks

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It is too easy for a girl when she has some punk all over her, answering her every need, calling her all the time. Girls do not want that at all, girls want trouble, arguments, all that good stuff. I learned the hard way what girls want when I kept on getting kicked to the curb but now I am on a roll because I found out what they want. My advice to all men who are having a hard time meeting women, RELAX, throw out all that rules crap and let loose.

What is there to think about?

Jerks are unpredictable and they are not dependable from the woman. The woman feels challenged and takes up on the challenge. A nice guy will always be there, waiting for her, ready to give advice and will always "run to the rescue" because he is such a "good friend". And then the woman will leave the jerk and the nice guy will be happy for it because he will have his chance to show her that he wants them to be more than friends. And before you know it, the woman finds another jerk. And it's the same thing all over again.

I've been the nice guy to a really hot chick for 5 years, until one day I snapped. We were having this great "oh, we can't be more than just friends" conversation on the phone. So this time, I told her that if she can't see me romantically we should not talk ever again. She was such an egoist that she said that it was fine by her. I never called her and I thought to see that as an experiment. I was sure that sometime she would call. I got desperate but I didn't call. 

And then, she called, after 18 months! I had made her swallow her ego and I was so damn proud of it. She wanted to meet for a drink the same night. And what did I say? No. How about the next day? No, no, I can't. Then I "gave in" and told her we could meet the third day. She was all sweet talk and trying to act cool. You really CANNOT imagine how great this felt after 6.5 years! :-)

Girls love it when a guy treats them like shit. I don't know about the rest of you out there but I've known this for a while. I figure I better treat them like shit now before I get married. That's when they get to treat us like shit.

Well Don the reason why women like jerks is because they feel the need to be emotional more than logical. I have slept with over 200 women in my life I am 29 years old. The one pattern I see is that, in some way or another they are trying to live out some type of soap opera life style. Sharing all of the human emotions. Here is a perfect example. I started dating this girl a month a ago. We started having sex soon their after. She said no more sex. I said I have a desire to make love. So I broke up with her. 

I knew there was a greater chance of her coming back than not. Why? Because, first, sex is an emotional experience for most women, and two for her to know that she gave it up and then for me to dump her that stirred all those emotions. So I take her back, her not knowing that all I did was break her down, just to build her back up. Now she thinks in her subconscious mind that she can be happy with me. It just like catching a big fish. If the fish fights give it some rope, but leave the hook in it's mouth. By the way your material is great.

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