Nice Guys vs Jerks

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Well, I think this is a very interesting subject because of it's sad true behind of it. Girls prefer jerks that don't respect her and then keep saying that men are not sensible and caring. It's raging! Sometimes I talk with my female friends about this and guess what? Even THEY don't know why... It's frustrating! They say: "oh I don't know but I love that jerk"

Should we all become jerks? No I don't think so... it's tempting but if we don't keep up the "nicilism" our world will be lost... what are we fighting for? (hehe brazilian joke). I expect some feed back if it's not a problem and some women opinion about this.

(I didn't learn yet how to finish a letter so: END)

Women are looking for men with confidence. Albeit there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, jerks show more of the favorable trait than nice guys.

Any guy can be nice to anybody if he tries. For example, I am with a girl whenever I am with her and her lady friends and guy friends come and talk to me I don't want to be nice to them because they are friends of my woman. (Unless they deserve to be treated differently, but that is besides the point.) Anyway, my woman may think (*this is coming for a guys mind*) that I could be nice to anyone and treat them like goddesses! 

On the other hand though, if I were a jerk and treated them not so fairly, but I still treated my girlfriend like a goddess, she may think that I only have eyes for her! It's a thought.

I am a nice guy and, as you can imagine, that does not get me anywhere. I'm not very attractive but that is beside the point. Sure sometimes I'll meet a nice girl but the guys who are hard, cool or downright bastards gets to choose freely who they want.

Personally I believe it has something to do with the fact that women are brought up to believe that girls have to be nice, peaceful and obedient to her husband and that opposites attract. There might also be an element of masochism involved. I don't know.

Anyway that was my two bits.

I know I'm probably the one millionth guy to talk about this, but I know what you mean when all the fine senioritas date low-class jerks and all the so-so honeys end up with high-class, nice people like me. Well, I'd say the reason for this is because the fine ladies want someone who is in charge. This is incredible red head went out with this idiot wrestler from my school - and I'd say its because she wanted to gain popularity, feel protected, and have fun (this guy would always make mean jokes about people that would seem funny at the time). 

My step-dad says to first start out low with a girl that already likes you.... after you break up you'll gain that much more experience into pimping it. The only thing keeping people back from their dreams is fear, and the thing that conquers fear is confidence. I learned that over several years of maturing into adulthood, I'm sure everyone else knows this as well... but most of them too scared to try it.

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