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Nice Guys vs Jerks
Now, dominance comes in many shapes and forms through many types of personalities and dispositions. Some negative, some positive and healthy. Each man does it differently. Some actually try to be a jerk for affect because that's what they believe works. But how does it work for both parties? It doesn't. It's one sided. It has to be mutual. You may have a woman attracted or attached to you but its a limited attachment because its the perceived dominance through the jerk attitude she's attached to not the real gentleman inside and usually the guy ends up dropping her. I don't believe that's what the real men in this world want. I know, I've done it. If it's good for her it should be good for you. In a world where men are constantly downgraded, constricted and choked by political correctness through radical feminism, many men just give in and put there manhood to sleep or put there balls on the table and do want they're expected to do and not what they want to do. I believe that inside all men have what I call "True Male Dominance". We are born with it but negative and confusing learned behavior stifles the meaning and feeling of true dominance for many men. We need to understand and take care of ourselves first - spiritually, mentally and physically because if we don't, how can we possibly be involved in a relationship with another and get the most out of it. You need to know who you are, what your values are, what you want and believe that its yours for the taking and the giving if you choose. Women love a man who knows what he wants. But if you live your life 100% of the time trying to figure out what it is women want more than knowing your true self, you're just a horny dog, dizzy from a tail chase. Over the years I've learned to shape my true dominance. I've learned that you don't have to be "the jerk" and you don't have to be the push over "nice guy" to be with the woman or women you want. You have to be a man who has strong beliefs and knows how to articulate those beliefs weather "she " likes them or not. Solid as a redoak. Also believe the fact that there is a monumental difference between cocky and confident. Cocky comes from insecurity and outside of self and is a limitation. Confidence, however, has no limitations and comes from within which is where all the goodness and strength lie. Be confident. Respect those who deserve it not just the ones you have a hard on for. Be laid back, be cool and comfortably confident. If you're anal please change that. Be encouraging but not a kiss ass. Listen! Be a gentleman but never, never, never put up with a female that tries to test you (you only get one shot at that test - make sure you pass the first time). Never put up with female shit. You don't have to, so DON'T. Let them know that. You're not being a "jerk", you're being dominant. It is your privilege and your right. Stop shit in its tracks. Trust me if the female you are with calls you a "jerk" because you're respecting yourself, she's wrong and at least you know you've made your point and 99% of the time she will never do it again and respect you more and more. If she doesn't see you as a "jerk" it shows that she's a strong woman who really knows and appreciates true dominance when she sees and feels it. Little by little that relationship will grow healthy get to a point of true possibility, example and a model for others. Remember, men have a so much to offer. I know it and my beautiful lady partner knows it. Spread the word and help your fellow gentleman be all he can be. Appreciate, love and respect yourself. My closest friends and I (a group consisting of both nice guys and jerks) have come to our own conclusion on this matter, and it is a simple one. When a woman meets "Mr. Right," or the "nice guy," she feels incomplete. Though he may be everything she says she wants, he is not what her nature tells her she needs. This is because she feels that, in order for her life to be complete, there must be some aspect of her man's life that she has to "fix." When the nice guy rolls around, offering her the moon & stars on a silver platter, her senses go into overload. She looks and looks for something wrong with him. Though it is always there, Mr. Nice Guy doesn't make it as apparent as the jerk, whose personality flaws are more than enough to preoccupy their significant others for eternity. In the end, the woman sees that there is something "wrong" with the man, if for no other reason than the fact that he doesn't offer her something to bitch and moan about. The couple may never get beyond idle chit-chat or they may go all the way to the dreaded proposal. But in either case, the relationship is doomed to failure.
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Dating Questions Women Ask You and How to Answer! Laugh Your Way to a Great Sense of Humor How to Make Meeting Women Easy The Kiss Close - When, How, and What To Do How to Tell a Woman That You Like Her How to Eliminate Your Fear of Women The Little-Known Secret to Skyrocketing Your Success with Women
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