Nice Guys vs Jerks

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I'm a generally nice guy and I hate to say this, sometimes it pays to be a jerk. If I'm nice, my girlfriend takes advantage of it. And if I act like a jerk, and don't call her, she calls me up and comes over. So just don't be too much of a jerk is my advice to you readers. Also make every woman feel like a princess, and pretty soon they'll treat you like a king.

As I see it, saying that women generally prefer "jerks" over "nice guys" and men prefer "bitches" over "nice girls" puts the cart before the horse. The attractiveness comes first: for men it's generally a combination of confidence, power, and looks, and for women it's generally a combination of looks and style. The reason a lot of people who have those attractive traits are jerks or bitches is because they *can* be.

Sure, they do well with the opposite sex. But equally "desirable" people who are genuinely nice do even better.

Once a nice guy held a door for an attractive lady but much to his unpleasant surprise she turned out to be a strong feminist. "I can open my own doors, thank you very much. After all, I am a lady," she said.

"Yes, I can see that," he replied "but I'm a gentleman."

My personal thoughts on this is that any woman who can't stand some one holding the door for them is probably some feminist bitch with issues and should probably be avoided anyway. I'm for the equality of sexes, but not for women somehow subjugating males in such a way that they lose the right to practice gold old fashion chivalry. Being a gentleman is a basic right that should not be given up for any woman.

I am a Lineman for the local college football team, and am a nice guy. When I walk through the halls and around campus, I get many hugs and flirtatious looks. But no dates with these girls, cause they are already going out with that jerk on the soccer team.

I think what it boils down to is that nice guys are perceived as wimps, but as nice guys go, we are usually tougher than that all talk, no balls jerk (at least in my case).

So what I have found works is this: When on a date and someone bothers you or your date, don't put up with it. Take control of the situation and end it quickly. This will show your "toughness"

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