Nice Guys vs Jerks

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The whole debate on women liking nice guys or jerks is pretty interesting. I read some stuff by readers of your site and their opinions on it. I don't have a ton to contribute here about the subject really. I just find it funny. I agree though that most girls esp. young ones go for jerks, or guys who ignore them basically... thrill of the chase, suspense yada yada.

See for a long time I was like... "No way man... I'm not gonna stoop to games and lie or put up fronts that are phony to get laid." And I figured the girls that would go for that anyways would have to be pretty dippy, self-centered, narcissist girls that I wouldn't want or have anything in common with in the long run anyways. It's funny though because I have found out being an under-confident guy (which I am without shame thank you) and not being a player aka a-hole. You don't get any being a nice guy.

So what's happened to me now is I'm just bitter, because of the crystallization of the realization and acceptance of this nature's or society's truth, maybe in my mind now. Which in turn has made me an a-hole in terms of my attitude towards women for their indifference, and the reality of the whole ugly game playing truth.

So I guess what I'm saying is women win in the end. See my problem is I'm only 23 and the women who are serious about liking a guy for the person he is and not for "the chase" are all in their 30's and older. Oh well... I work full time, go to the gym, and have my books and porn. That should keep me busy for another ten years if I don't go crazy first. Cheerio.

Well here is my two cents worth and it's going to piss off most of the chicks and a lot of wimpy men.

Girls do like jerks, especially the pretty girls (fair or not you fellows know the pretty ones are the ones we want). And these girls can have anyone they want, so they deserve no sympathy when they get treated like dirt. Ladies, please spare me the fecal matter about how you don't know he is a jerk. Guys if you are a shoulder to cry on for these women you are a bunch of damn fools.

What I really get tired of hearing is that when women get older they become more attracted to nice guys. This is true only if she has gained 100lbs,has finally divorced the jerk, and has a couple of his kids she needs some sucker to help support. Even then she will secretly always want him back. It happens to me constantly, and these chicks can go to hell as far as I'm concerned.

The best seducer I know personally is an alcoholic, ex-convict, pathological liar with a violent temper, who can't hold down a job. Hell, look at how popular Bill Clinton is with women voters. This is why I'm primarily interested in financial success. To hell with these dumb chicks. Let them marry a turd and live in misery. I'm going to have a nice home, car, and retire comfortably.

If you're nice, she thinks you are a puss, chump and not a real man. It's always been this way and always will be. Actors, pro athletes, rock stars, and drug dealers are always awash with women, and these guys are known scum.

Well yall the truth hurts, DEAL WITH IT!

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