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Nice Guys vs Jerks
I too am a "nice guy" but am also extremely confident. I think that jerks get a lot of the cuties because they do the most effort during courtship. In the midst of a normal relationship I think that this is untrue, but if you ever watch a jerk try to seduce women at frat parties, they go all out and look mildly retarded. If a girl doesn't seem initially interested, I allow her space. Jerks do not do this. They will keep smiling, keep nodding, and keep refilling the keg cup until she is f**kable and ready to f**k. And when she wakes up the next day, she doesn't want to be labeled a slut so she tries to make something out of her experience, and here is where the jerk tendencies come in to play. Also, a typical nice guy will display his interest in a clear and polite manner. This is also known as boring. A jerk may not give a cute girl the time of day, which will leave the hottie wondering what she's doing wrong, and she'll accept this jerk as a Everest like challenge. You guys probably already know this. I'm no expert in the area which is why I am visiting your sight. I just think that these ideas should be tangibly posted in some link to this on going debate. Keep up the good work Being a guy in my mid-thirties, it's been my experience that women younger than me go for the jerks, maybe because they appear "cool," spontaneous, and hip. But women more my age realize that "jerk" means just that- jerk! I will weigh in on the nice guy versus bad boy debate. Lets be honest here, women don't like nice guys. They like men who they perceive as a challenge, they like men who are dangerous, they like men who they feel will protect them in a fight. When a guy comes across as nice, women perceive that to be weak. This myth is backed up heavily in pop culture, just look at the covers of romance novels which feature muscle-bound, Fabio clones ripping women's clothes off. The problem is the tough, brooding unpredictable guy is not very reliable. And sometimes being with a dangerous man can land a woman in hot water, ask Pamela Anderson and Whitney Houston. I think women want to have their cake and eat it, they want a good guy who can be bad occasionally. For more about nice guys and bad boys go to www.xng.8m.com and read the first chapter of "The XNG's Rules of Dating and Sex."
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Dating Questions Women Ask You and How to Answer! Laugh Your Way to a Great Sense of Humor How to Make Meeting Women Easy The Kiss Close - When, How, and What To Do How to Tell a Woman That You Like Her How to Eliminate Your Fear of Women The Little-Known Secret to Skyrocketing Your Success with Women
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