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Nice Guys vs Jerks
Women are powerfully attracted to guys who are open with their sexuality, thus the jerks win. Now it is important to realize that being open with your sexuality is not about being a macho wanker, but simply about not denying that you wanna have sex with her. She knows it anyway, and if you don't let the world know it, you're headed right for the friendship zone, which is great if you wanna chat all night only to see her waltz out the door and straight into bed with some asshole who just walked in, but useless if you wanna be the one helping her mess up her sheets. To be open with your sexuality all you gotta do is be yourself knowing that it is fine to feel sexual about her, just don't drool or go straight for the Wanna F**k approach (although even that works about 10% of the time). Be nice by all means, in fact I would advocate nothing but niceness, but you gotta combine it with strength and let your sexuality shine through. After all, the difference between you and the jerk is that you are nice, he is sexual, but who does she take home??? Nice Guy v Jerk is a non-issue. All you can be is yourself. Why try and be something you're not? You're ok as you are. If you don't get to screw 7 women a week, so what, there are more important things in life than notches on your headboard. Even if you managed to convince someone that you are who you're pretending to be, then she'll like you for the wrong reasons and you've set yourself up to be hurt when she finds out what you're really like. If, on the other hand, she likes you for what you are, then you've got a good result. Here is my 2 cents worth. First of all for all the single women out there, I am a single good-looking nice guy. I am still looking for the woman of my dreams. In my relationships and most recently with my last one, women love jerks. It is something in women's instinct that draws them to the jerks I think. I am generally a nice guy and I generally don't have a hard time getting a date. The hitch is that if you don't act like you don't care at least once, and act as if you can get someone else, they start looking for someone else. It's the excitement of the hunt, to try and tame the beast. One thing about women and internet dating. I know ladies who have ads on the internet, and they are asking for someone who both does not exist, nor do they really want. I know one lady whose boyfriend, for the past 3 years, has repeatedly lied to her, cheated on her, goes out every weekend to the clubs chasing women, and knows of two girlfriends he has on the side. She is still with him and loves him. Her boyfriend does not love her, but still goes out with her; he claims to like her and has feelings for her. Actually, he can only handle a lady who he is in complete control of. And, therefore, in control of the relationship. Tired of him, she puts a singles ad on the internet describing the man she wants. In her ad she wrote "I'm not into head games... you're either going out with me or you're not!" She doesn't want that! She IS into head games, she DOES want a guy that cheats on her! Why would she still be with him after all this time and after what he's put her through. Women will never admit it, but when you look at the type they continue to go out with, they DO want a jerk! I myself, being the nice person - who I am - and will only go out with a nice girl - which I really want - have responded to women's ads on the internet. I fell into the category of the type of man they described - honest, sincere, not abusive or into drugs, etc. But I was rejected! If they want a guy like that, he'll be just like me. Take all that away - a jerk.
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Dating Questions Women Ask You and How to Answer! Laugh Your Way to a Great Sense of Humor How to Make Meeting Women Easy The Kiss Close - When, How, and What To Do How to Tell a Woman That You Like Her How to Eliminate Your Fear of Women The Little-Known Secret to Skyrocketing Your Success with Women
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