Nice Guys vs Jerks

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I dated a girl right out of high school who had just broken up with a jerk. She used to have this guy's name written on her backpack, adjoined with her name by a heart.

I didn't know her while in school, but her friend was going out with my friend at the time, and we started dating ourselves. Anyway, she fell for me pretty hard, and said to me one day something I have continued to at least try to live by.

"You know what the good thing is about you?" she said to me, "You don't take any sh*t, but you don't give any either."

That's the whole point of it. If something smells fishy or appears manipulative, put a stop to it. However, don't give her any of that smelly stuff in return. As it was, it eventually fizzled, but I've taken that to heart, while trying to learn the rest by just traversing life.

I don't like girls that are too nice. I like someone who is basically a good person but has flashes of evil that keep me interested. No one wants to watch the Weather Channel all day but Hard-Core porn 24/7 gets old too. It's kinda like how even nice little shows like Sesame Street had characters like Oscar the Grouch in them to shake things up a little.

I also agree with a comment made by someone else on this site that women dig jerks because it gives them something to bitch about. (And we all can agree with that.) If they don't have something to talk about, which by the way is usually their relationship with their significant other, then they have no reason to live.

I am just going to be me. Basically I'm a good-hearted guy, but sometimes I let the sex-crazed animal out. Usually I get more action when I choose the later. Then once I get them I treat them really good until they start to loose interest, then I start being a jerk and they like me again.

Friends, no one said that women are rational. I think it was Merlin from Camelot that reminds us not to worry if we don't know what a woman is thinking. She doesn't do it that often ;) Here's my tip which may sound counterintuitive: Women thrive on neglect. This is why jerks score and us nice guys stay home rearranging the sock drawer. They understand the anima, or female psyche.

Once you have gotten the little ladies attention, it is necessary to get her to think about you. You do this by acting as though you have a life beyond her and not gaffaw all over her just because she has a pair of Mcguffy's. Take it slow, let her know that you are interested but make her pursue you, you Alpha male you. It's all a part of the courtship dance. Go out with the guys some time when she wants to go out with you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and she will be asking you for the next date I guarantee.

Mothers tell their daughters to try to find a nice, sensitive, caring guy who will listen to them but daughters tell their mom's that they already have a girlfriend. What they want is someone to add some excitement in their lives. The feministas have sold us a load of moose pie. Instead, let her know that you are not some pansy, save the whales, Birkenstock wearing, Mr. sensitivity kind of guy, but the leader in this relationship. Even the most liberal women go gaga in private for a guy who is in touch with his hairy self.

I think that women like a little space in a relationship and like to see that you are still one of the guys. Of course you don't want to take this to an extreme. Simply let her know that you are a man's man while also showing her that you can be a romantic too by sending her flowers or such at work. Showing her that you also know how to treat her like a lady will make her day and steal her heart.

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