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Nice Guys vs Jerks
It was great for my ego but it was very shallow and I knew that if they got to know the "nice guy" me they would drop me like a hot potato. My social experiment ended after a few months and having lived on the other side of the fence I can attest to the differences between nice guys and jerks. umm... I have a small theory I wish to share. I believe that PART of the attraction of jerks for women is that there is a sense of strength in what they do (their rebelliousness), whereas nice guys perhaps seem to lack action, are considered PASSIVE as it were... PREDICTABLE even. Maybe, nice guys are viewed as less spontaneous...??? something to ask the general population perhaps. Women like to feel secure... ironically some women feel that security can be found in guys who rebel against convention... against authority even. I consider myself a "nice guy with backbone" which most discerning ladies seems to appreciate, it seems. Unfortunately, it doesn't happen often enough... yes I know... read and study your articles more... I am and will again. I cant explain the nice guy vs jerk phenomenon entirely... since most of the women I chat to on the net favor RESPECT and TRUTH... two things I think would be lacking in a jerk... I'm a guy and I also happen to be a nice guy. I have always been rejected/overlooked/shotdown by women because I'm too nice. I was raised to treat women, and people in general, with respect. I hold the door for chicks, I say yes ma'am, and I say please and thank you. And I never get any p***y. And, I'm not saying that all I want is the p***y, but chicks seem to think that I'm a great guy to be friends with and talk to about their boyfriends and stuff, but sometimes all I can think about when they're talking is "damn, I wonder what color your panties are." That doesn't sound very much like a nice guy, but that's in my head, not out loud. Anyway, I really think that it should just be considered a fact that chicks like jerks and that's all there is to it. Nice guys finish last in the dating and sex department. I'm not ugly. And I'm pretty witty and charming. But, I'm not an asshole, so I pretty much shoot myself in the foot where chicks are concerned. I have a friend that is dating a guy that tells her when to be home, what they're doing for lunch and everything else. And she loves him and puts out like crazy. Why!? I can't figure it out. If she was with me, I would be nice and we would do what she wanted and what I wanted. A relationship is a partnership, not a dictatorship. Anyway, that's my story. I hope you figure this out because I really need to get laid.
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