Nice Guys vs Jerks

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Nice guys vs. jerks isn't the real issue here, it is all about confidence. The major difference between nice guys and jerks is this: if a nice guy has the guts to approach a woman who has caught his attention, he is so worried about saying the perfect "nice" thing that he will totally flub it. The "nice" one ends up stumbling away from the object of his desires with his tail caught between his legs ...  for those who don't already realize, this is NOT the impression you want to make!

A jerk, on the other hand, appears to have been blessed with ability to approach anyone and say just what's on his mind completely disregarding any of the repercussions. He just does it. I have no clue how he does it. But DAMN, the man who has the confidence to accomplish that has caught my eye for the night whether he wants it or not!

Julie ~~ currently attached to a "nice guy" who actually realizes his capabilities are sky high. He has kept me completely captivated for two years now and we are still going strong.

I think it all depends on what kind of person the lady is in the first place. If a woman is a jerk, she'll tend to like the jerks as well.

I, on the other hand, do not find jerks appealing. I actually am self-conscience around them b/c I don't know if they'll suddenly say something mean about me... just for laughs. 

I do not smoke, or drink..... and I like nice guys that are the same. I find funny, intelligent, well-mannered guys the best around. "Jerks" are immature, and you can't relax around them. They're always trying too hard, and they probably won't amount to much at all.

If I know the guy is nice, I'd rather go out with him, knowing he'll treat me like a lady, not like one of his slacker, loser "jerk" friends. That's what means the most.

What is a Nice Guy? What is a Jerk? Is a nice guy that handsome looking one which knows everyone and has women all over him and being w/him makes you feel like a winner? Or is he the one that isn't very handsome, doesn't know anyone, nobody you know has any interest in him, but he adores you, fills you with presents and treats you like a Queen?

Is the Jerk the one that is not very handsome, is very clumsy, but will treat you as good as can get, do anything for you, make you feel like a queen? Or is he the handsome looking one which knows everyone, too many women like him, he likes too many women, but being with him makes you feel like a winner?

The first example in the questions are how men see it, the second is how women see it.

Women won't want someone that nobody else wants, because that makes her think that she is not getting the best. The answer is that simple.

I am a female... and I like nice guys... perhaps when I was younger and immature I would have liked jerks... because I didn't know then what I know now. I don't have to settle for a jerk as a date or a lover ~~ I can have a nice guy that treats me how I deserve to be treated... NICELY... in all aspects. Jerks want sex to please them. Nice guys will please the woman too... and the story goes on... Hope this helps on your survey.

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