Nice Guys vs Jerks

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Have hope, nice guys!!!

I am a woman in a relationship with a man who treats me like gold. He is a "nice guy." I used to like jerks, but liking a nice guy is totally different. There is none of the constant wondering and worrying and pain. I think it is a question of maturity. And I think once you go "nice," you never go back.

Nice guys can be ok at times, but it can get boring fast if they don't make the first move after a week or two.

Most woman find "jerks" intriguing at first... just as when you're a teenager, a guy with a Harley and ponytail is intriguing. Would we want to settle with the rebel? No, but it excites us. Danger.

I am a woman and I can remember being infatuated with jerks in high school and college. Now, I am happily married to a nice guy going on four years strong.

I feel that when women are immature they prefer immature men because that is all that they can handle. When we grow up a bit, we can be truly happy with a wonderful man in a lasting relationship.

However, having said all that, there are some women who go through an entire lifetime seeking out jerks because of their inability to grow up.

Alright, I read some of your responses from women and noticed that most of them seemed older. And since a lot of guys who go here seem to be around my age (17), I figured I would put my 2 cents in.

I don't like the nice guy. To me he's a definite turn off. He seems too timid to pursue intimacy, and personally I love it when a guy is real horny (as long as he's attractive and knows when to stop). It makes me feel a lot more comfortable.

I'm not saying I like jerks, I like the funny guy who always has something interesting or colorful to say. Normally girls look for someone of their 'niceness quotient' or lower. Feeling like the jerk in the relationship is no fun. Of course, neither is being the 'bitch' so it's totally up to the chick. Maybe u nice guys should get a bit more bold, not necessarily 'jerk-ish'

I am a talented, loving, & I've been told, Beautiful Woman. I've also had my fill of Jerks! You know the ones -- never have time for you but time for everything & everybody else, never get invited to their friends get togethers, even though you know their friends would like you, & probably be checking you out because he's already talked about you a lot, always sending mixed messages about the way he feels about you, generally talking to you about everything & everyone in their lives but NEVER letting you in.

Actions speak louder than words. I've finally come to realize that I will never let another Jerk into my life, because I have way too much to offer a Real Man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to show it & say it while he looks me in my beautiful eyes!

A Man who is strong & independent but is also concerned with me and my life. A Man who can be as passionate, kind, and honest as I. A Man who is proud to introduce me to his friends as I would introduce him to mine. No head games anymore. If it clicks go for it with all you have!

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