How to Hook Up With Girls In Clubs Without Ever Approaching Them
I go clubbing a lot, and from my experience, hereís what I found out.
Never approach girls! When I used to go clubbing before I would spend so much time trying to come up with a way to approach girls that I would end up wasting lots of valuable time. Time that I could have spent dancing and having fun. So I learned from watching other guys just dancing and having fun that the trick is to have a good time by yourself.
Girls that are sitting down are looking at the guys that are dancing and thinking, "That guy is out there dancing, having so much fun. Maybe I should go and dance too."
So then comes the time to make the move. When the girl goes up and starts dancing, slowly move in and start dancing with her. If she doesnít like you, you can just turn around and keep dancing. If she does, the rest is history.
Also girls notice when you ask someone else. If they see that you ask them second, they may get offended by being second choice. Walking around looking for girls only makes you look desperate. And girls donít want a desperate guy.
Even if you donít hook up... at least you had fun dancing.
I try to find the highest part of the dance floor (usually the stages) and dance there where I am most visible. This assures me that all the girls at the club will see me.
I know this tip works because Iíve brought it to my clubbing friends that couldnít hook up. Now we have to turn away girls when we dance on the stage.