How to Make a Woman Trust You Completely
Iím about to reveal a little-known secret of human persuasion that can induce the woman to feel complete trust for you, and have sex with you... even if itís the very first date.
You see, for a woman to have sex with a guy, she must not only be attracted to him, but she must also trust him. Look at it like this:
1. Trust Without Attraction = "Heís a great friend and I love him to death!" (Translation: "Weíll NEVER have sex!")
2. Attraction Without Trust = "Iím not a loose woman. Heíll have to wait before he gets any!"
However, if the woman has both attraction AND trust for the guy, sheíll be literally begging you to take her home with you that night.
Letís take a typical scenario. Say itís coming up on 11 PM, and youíve been with a woman since 6 that afternoon. As long as youíve had good rapport with her and youíve kept pushing the interaction forward, you can assume sheís attracted to you.
And by the way, with a woman, you should always assume attraction until proven otherwise. Because the bottom line is that as long as youíve got good body language, youíve got a lot going on in your life, and youíre witty and interesting, she WILL be attracted to you.
Now you need to build trust. By the time you finish this article, youíll know an easy, efficient way to do that.
And by the way, this is a one of the best-kept secrets of human persuasion. The most successful advertisers and salesmen to make billions use it, and now youíll be able to use it with women.
Have you ever noticed how ads will sometimes mention minor defects in the products? A famous example of this was the wildly success Volkswagen Beetle ads from 30 years ago that had the huge headline: "Lemon."
The point of the ad was that not all of their cars were perfect. VW took its quality inspections so seriously that it took note of even small weaknesses in the builds of its cars.
You see, if a person tells you something thatís against his self-interest, you tend to trust him more. We all do. Itís a fundamental trait of human psychology.
So when it comes to women, you should point out your minor flaws. Examples could be:
- I have an ugly mole on my neck. Sometimes I feel self-conscious about it.
- I had to give a speech last week and felt so nervous!
- I donít always floss my teeth even though I should.
Even if theyíre fake flaws, it doesnít necessarily matter. By pointing them out, you create a perception of honesty within the woman.
Because she believes the minor imperfections about you, sheíll believe the MAJOR PERFECTIONS about you as well.
This means that, having both attraction for AND trust in you, later that night she could be breathlessly panting, "Iíve never done it with a guy this soon before!"
If youíre interested in more advanced ideas on how to build instant trust and instant attraction with a woman click here.
John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male ... a seduction success guide for men. Learn the 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying "hello" to a new woman... to sharing orgasms in bed with her... in just one evening!