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How to Bounce Back from Divorce and Date Hot Women

by Jake Vandenhoff

If you've just gone through a divorce the idea of dating again can be downright scary, but it doesn't have to be.

Today I'm going to share with you 4 tips for getting back on your feet and moving ahead with your life as a newly single man.

These are the exact steps that I took to bounce back after my own divorce to start dating tons of hot, high-caliber women. In fact my dating life post-divorce is FAR superior than my dating life as a young kid in my early twenties.

Stop Thinking About Your Ex-Wife

Dwelling on what went wrong, what could have been, or what a giant bitch your ex-wife is will not help you in any way! Put her out of your mind as much as possible.

Get rid of objects that remind you of her, such as shirts she gave you, the mattress you slept on together etc... These things will trigger negative emotions and need to GO! It may cost a couple bucks to replace these things but it will be well worth it.

Do Nice Things for Yourself

Getting divorced sucks, even if it's the right thing to do. You need to reward yourself for all the emotional turmoil you've been through.

If you can swing it, I highly recommend going to a resort and spending a week or so just relaxing in the sun, looking at hot women in bikinis, and generally treating yourself. If you have a friend who will help cheer you up bring him along, if not go alone.

It's important to spend some time alone nurturing your relationship with yourself. If you don't have money like that, have a "staycation." Just lounge for a week, go to the beach, golf, or whatever else is fun and relaxing for you.

Get Your Look Back Together

Men have a tendency to let themselves go a bit while they are married.

If you haven't been trying to attract anybody new for years it's likely that you have gotten out of shape, and that your style isn't as current and cool as it could be.

So,

  • Get in the gym and set some goals for yourself. If you don't know much about working out, definitely consult with a trainer.
  • And get some new clothes that fit your body and your individual style.

Sign Up for Online Dating

This is the new frontier, and it's the *ideal* place for guys who have been out of the game for a while to get their feet wet again.

Nowadays there are millions of attractive women online looking for a guy just like you! It's easy, fun, and it doesn't require you to go out and drink in crowded bars when you don't feel like it.

Also, Online Dating is completely automated, so you can be getting emails and phone numbers from attractive women while you're sleeping!

About the Author: Jake Vandenhoff is author of the Online Dating Playbook. Learn how to attract women from the serenity of your own living-room by employing simple psychological principles.