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Mental Secrets of Guys Who Get Laid

by Sebastian Steele

Last week I was in one of my favorite bars with my friend Frank. Now Frank is someone who's always wanted to meet beautiful women, but could never understand how like most guys I think.

So we were sitting there, and I was explaining how seduction works, and why looks really don't matter as long as you have skill. But all he heard me say was that looks don't matter, and missed the part about the skills being needed.

So Frank got upset and started ranting and raving about how he's asked many women out, and they always say no, and how no woman who is beautiful is going to want to be with a guy who looks average.

Well, God must have been listening in on our conversation, because 15 seconds later in walks this absolutely stunning brunette. She had it all, legs, breast, long flowing hair, and she moved very gracefully. She obviously knew she was hot.

I got excited, because I was getting ready to go talk to her. So Frank and I are watching her walk across the room, and she walks RIGHT up to this guy who was obviously her boyfriend, hugs and kisses him.

Well Frank's jaw hit the floor, because the guy was easily 10 years older than her, and he looked like just your average guy in his mid 30's. He was losing some hair, had a pot belly, and dressed average. There was nothing unique about the way this guy looked at all.

So Frank and I watched this couple as their friends joined them for drinks over the course of the night. Eventually I was so curious, I decided to find a way to make conversation with these people. I had to find out what this guy was like, and I wanted to show Frank too.

10 minutes later I was chatting with him and his girlfriend (I confirmed that it was his girlfriend), and Frank and I were blown away by his personality!

He was cracking dirty jokes, telling stories, and just generally entertaining the whole group. Everyone seemed really comfortable around him, and his girlfriend was obviously in love with this man.

So later that night, Frank and I were talking and he said, "You know Sebastian, if that plain looking guy can get women just with his personality, I can too!"

In that night, his entire perspective changed, because he saw with his own eyes that it was possible to have what he wanted. He knew it was possible, because he saw someone else who was uglier than him who had a woman that was better looking than anyone Frank ever dated.

Now here's the thing. Frank could have always gotten women, but what stood in his way was a Limiting Belief about women. This might be what's going on with you. In fact, I'm willing to bet that if you're not getting what you want in terms of women right now, it's because you're getting in your OWN way.

So what do you do?

You must first learn how to break down the mental barriers that are holding you back from getting the women that you DESERVE!

Now how are you supposed to do that?

That's a good question, and it is the exact reason why I've written "Simple Seducer" - the most complete guide to becoming the man that you want to be and getting any and all of woman that you want.

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