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Not Good Looking? Who Cares!

by The Player

Before we begin let me start off with a brief analogy...

By now I'm sure that you must have read about body language on this site, so you should know that even though most people spend a large majority of their lives talking... roughly 90% of the communication done between two people is actually non-verbal. With that said I can now move on to the main subject at hand, because in theory the game of dating and seduction as a whole works in a very similar fashion.

Allow me to explain:

Even though the modern world that we live in may place a huge emphasis on the way people look... in actuality your looks can only be given credit for about 10% of your ability to pick up women.

If that is the case, then what makes up the other 90%? Read on...

In reality, the only thing that good looks can do for a man is get visual attention from women... meaning that if you look like a male model women will most likely notice you faster than other men, which might seem like a good thing, but that is not always the case.

Throughout the history of human beings the males have been granted the role of the predator, and in turn females would take on the role of the prey. This is why women are naturally inclined to sit back and let the men come to them and express their interest, then make the decision to pursue a relationship or not.

I'm sure you are familiar with this concept, so with that in mind why would the way you look mean much at all? It's not like you will have women approaching you no matter how good you look, because that is the MAN'S role.

Master seducers know this, and that is why they do not waste their time worrying about if they look perfect, because that is the WOMAN'S role. Plus, a real player knows that he has the ability and skill to get any woman that he wants... all he needs to do is approach them and begin flirting. It does not matter if the girl is attracted to him at first sight or not, because he knows that he will get her regardless once the conversation ensues.

There are millions of men out there, right now, that are constantly worrying about how they look... and I'd be willing to bet that over half of them have no REAL skill when it comes to attracting and picking up women. They think that if they look their best the women will simply come running... but it never happens.

However, there are a select few who have taken the time to learn what really matters in the dating game, and even though they may still groom themselves properly... they understand that looks just get you to the door, while the rest is what gets you through it.

I am one of those men (but I haven't always been), and I have dedicated my life to teaching guys just like you what I've learned through years of experience. If there was a "Seduction 101" course taught in college, I would most likely be a professor at one. However, the world is not like that and probably never will be... and up until now it has been up to guys to learn how to deal with women themselves, through trial and error.

Not anymore!

Read my entire web site carefully and try to incorporate everything that you learn into your daily life and routine, you'll notice dramatic results.

After that, when you are ready to take the next step and really start getting those "top shelf" women, make sure that you read my book... it contains all of my best secrets to getting girls that I've been using successfully for years. You will not be disappointed!

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Until next time, play on players!

The Player
http://www.playersblackbook.com