Target the Shy Girls for Easy Pickings
In any group of girls, there's usually one who's getting all the attention. You know, she's really animated, talking a lot, outgoing, a lot of guys are hitting on her.
You can bet some of the other girls in the group are kind of shy and are feeling left out and a bit jealous – and they're dying for their share of attention! Give it to them, and it will be like throwing them a lifeline – they'll cling on to you to save them from the horror of being a chick in the shadow of some other woman!
Here's what you do:
Scope out the girl in the group who seems kind of shy, who's looking around for attention but can't seem to get any because her girlfriend is dancing on the tabletops or just being really loud and boisterous - and being hit on by every guy in the place.
Go up to your shy girl and say, "I just can't believe it."
She'll say, "What?"
"I can't believe why everyone is making such a fuss over your friend when there's such a beautiful woman sitting over here in the corner. We need to do something about that. Can I join you?"
She'll be very flattered, and thankful someone noticed her! Ask her name, give her yours, and offer to buy a drink. Make sure you don't say anything negative about her loud, flirty friend – this will turn her off. Give her the attention she's been craving, tell her she's got beautiful eyes. Ask her about herself, what she does for a living, where she lives – women love to talk as much as they love compliments, and they love it when someone takes an interest.
And after seeing her friend be the one to get the spotlight all night, she'll lap up the attention like crazy.
Tell her you enjoyed meeting her and would like to take her out sometime, then get her number. She'll be all too happy to give it – handing over a phone number will show her friends that she's getting male attention, too! She'll be thankful you saved her from sitting unnoticed, and you'll be on your way to one very hot date with a very grateful gal!