What Happens If You Don't Approach the Girl You Want
Alright, you see a chick you want to DJ.
You remember everything you've read, studied or even tried. Then suddenly some doubt enters your mind.... What if she rejects me? What if I don't get the number?
Next time that happens think about it this way....
- You don't have her number
- Worst-case scenario, she doesn't give you her number
- If you don't do anything, you are basically just WALKING RIGHT INTO the WORST POSSIBLE scenario!
Screwing yourself over!
So why not? If you don't do anything, and sit on your ass like a nice guy, you are already down for the count. You rejected YOURSELF.
A Unique Way to Ask Her Out On a Date
When I decided to ask my current girlfriend out, we were both at a youth conference that we had helped to plan. We were bored, and sitting in the back playing games on paper. I had known her for a while, and really wanted to ask her out, but couldn't think of a good way to go about it.
That was when she said, "Let's play Hangman." Something sparked in my mind when she said that, and I made out a Hangman that said, "Do you want to go out sometime?"
I knew that she had figured out the puzzle when she was less than halfway done, because of the smile on her face, and the fact that all of the letters she picked were in the puzzle. Upon completion she asked, "Well, do you want an answer?" and I said only if she was saying yes.
Needless to say, she thought it was very romantic, and all my female friends agree that it was awesome.
Zach
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