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Seduction Without Words: The Magic of Touch

by Anon

Touch can be a very powerful tool in your quest to conquer the woman of your dreams.

A lot of people like to say that a smile is worth a thousand words; the same goes for the well placed tactile contact... one touch is worth a thousand words. And if it's the right touch, it can be worth a couple hundred thousand.

A personal experience...

A few weeks ago I was at a concert and started working this girl I saw. The only words I said were at the beginning of the evening, to ask her name and tell her mine. The rest of the night the music was too loud to allow any form of talking at reasonable volumes. Words were out of the question, but other forms of contact were not.

To make a long story short, my hands became my words, and with reasonable use of them I managed to get this girl's trust and get closer to her than if I had spent the night yelling and trying to get verbal messages across. Got me a phone number exchange too...

When you're working a girl, don't be afraid to let yourself touch and get a little bit closer. Be respectful though: think things out and don't let yourself get grabby.

If you're taller, start by working at the shoulders, then progressively (progressively... which is synonymous with "work slowly and with caution"... clear?) move down the sides towards the waist. This is a way to go that has a lesser chance of being perceived as threatening than say, if you went for the waist from the start, or even worse, if you attempted to put your arms around her without warning. Once you're at the waist, you can probably put your arms around her and well, you can take it from there.

The whole time, observe her reactions carefully to plan your next move: if you touch and she retracts or seems bothered by it, stop there and try something else. Don't try to hold her for long periods of time either unless the situation calls for it. Remember that in crowded rooms it tends to get hot and uncomfortable after a while.