Control the Situation
One thing I’ve noticed is that when you are in control of a situation, and you hold the attention of numerous people and stay calm, the ladies are just drawn to you.
I’m an umpire and whenever I call a game behind the plate, I am in control. I control the flow of the game and I demand the attention of anyone involved in the game. And when I’m calling a game, I look into the stands and sometimes there’s a pretty little thing sitting there, and she can’t take her eyes off of me.
But then, when you lose control, it’s all over.
When I was just starting, I would mess up a call, panic, and have to give up control to my partner. After that happened, I noticed that those same girls who couldn’t keep their eyes off me had lost interest in me.
The lesson is, take control, and don’t be afraid to keep it.
The Lazy Man’s Way
