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Learning to Walk Away From Women

by El Perro

Okay, so you've read and re-read the articles at SoSuave, you've improved your wardrobe, grooming, skills, etc., and you've built up the confidence to talk to women.

You are ready!

But what happens when you get that first rejection, or get dissed by that 10 that you really wanted? What if you are in a slump and get rejected one time too many?

Don't laugh. I've personally seen this situation too many times.

There's only one way to handle something like this:

Learn to walk away!

You see, you need to realize that no matter how hard you try, no matter how wonderful you are, you will not appeal to everyone you meet. That's okay — their loss, right?

But, as everyone here already knows, one shot to your self-esteem can lead you down that slippery slope toward Wussland — BUT ONLY IF YOU LET IT!

Yeah, it takes balls to get a number from a girl, but it also takes balls to throw it away if she's playing with you.

It takes balls to initiate a conversation with a total stranger, but it also takes balls to break it off if you see that you're wasting your time.

What I'm trying to say is...

If you break it off first you won't feel like such a chump, you won't seem so needy, and she won't get the chance to dive-bomb your ego — you've made it clear that SHE is wasting YOUR time, not the other way around.

This is the Don Juan Way.