How to Date Younger Women
Pay attention, all you horny guys who want to date younger women - this is for you.
There are some simple secrets that you must know.
Here's an email we got recently:
Dear Dating gurus,
I want to date hot young women, but always fail. I'm 35, and would love to sleep with girls I see on campus (I live in a college town). I am clueless, what should I do?
David: Ah, the younger woman...the much sought-after babe. But if you are 35+, women in their early 20s would never want you, right? Wrong!
First, you must realize that many younger women are more attracted to older men than they are to those drones their own age. They want someone who is sensitive, mature, and experienced. In case you didn't notice, that's you, bucko!
So you want to find those 20-year olds who want an older man.
Don't blow it by trying to be "hip" like the guys her age. You'll just look like an idiot with your too-big pants and your hat on backwards.
At the same time, don't draw attention to her comparative youth. The worst is to lecture her about how you were when you were her age, and what you have learned. If women your age don't care, why should she?
Create experiences that she normally wouldn't have - a date off-campus, an interesting restaurant (don't spend too much), or a drive in the country. Avoiding being with her in places her peers will likely be - it will be uncomfortable for her and you.
Ron: To get sex with younger women, you must convince yourself (and thus, her) that your age is a benefit.
Some girls will reject you because of your age, but others will sleep with you because of it, too. So muster up the courage to ask out that beautiful 20-year-old. She may well be the girl for you.
If you really want to be with hot, younger women, you are going to need to know how to be a master of "Disconnection."
You see, most men spend their time trying to "connect" with women. This works, but often doesn't work so well with women who are in-demand, "out of your league," or stuck-up because they are so attractive.
For those women, you MUST be able to "disconnect" so she feels drawn toward you.
There's a LOT more info about that at:
Here's another email along the same lines...
I'm a divorced father of two kids, in my mid-40s and just now back on the dating scene after being married for 15 years. How do I get over these disadvantages so I can get back into dating?
Signed, Confused Dad
You're actually much better off than you think. Right now you think you have all these disadvantages - you're too old, you're out of practice, you have kids, and so on.
But those aren't minuses - they're plusses, if you play your cards right.
The key for you is to start seeing your disadvantages as advantages. For instance:
You're not just divorced - you've proven your ability to commit, over a fifteen year period! Women love that!
You have kids - a lot of women you will date have them too. But by being a good father, you are more attractive to these women then guys who are unproven in relationships and with families.
The bottom line is, a lot of women out there are looking for a guy like you - a mature, proven quantity who can keep together a long-term relationship and is good with children.
Your main problem is that you believe that all these factors are work against you when actually they work for you.
Of course, they won't work for you with all women. It is true, that with some women, being older, divorced and with kids will be a reason to run. But don't hide your past - flaunt it! It can work for you, if you let it.
Until Next Time,
Ron Louis and David Copeland
P.S. For help getting women to pursue YOU, and getting them to do most of the work, check out
Ron and David are dating coaches. How to Succeed With Women has sold over 40,000 copies. They have been featured in magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Playboy, YM, Maxim, GQ UK, Swank, Gallery, and Players. They have also been on the Rosanne Barr Show, the Issac Hays show, To Tell the Truth, Fox News, CNN, UPN, and ABC.