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Robert Jordon

Master Don Juan
posted 08-18-2000 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Robert Jordon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a psychological fact. That anything you depend upon breeds fear.

In other words. If you depend on something to be there. You also live in fear of losing that thing that you depend on so much.

So It goes to say, if your happiness and piece of mind are depending on the day that some girl will walk into your life and give you all of that. You are also in fear of not achieving that goal. This hidden fear will become apparent in the way you walk,talk and interact with women.

It has also been proven recently, that a sixth scence does exist.And it seems to be bestowed upon women, more than men. So girls can also scence your dependancy on them, and this turns them off.

You need to constantly tell yourself that you don't need a woman to come into your life. But if it happens. Great!

Rob,

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Dee-Zy

Master Don Juan
posted 08-19-2000 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee-Zy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Really good post!
Thumbz up!

now, tha hardest part of it is.
HOW to think like that when you never had a girl and you WAN'T to know how it is like!

j/k


Peace Out
DZ

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy

Don Juan
posted 11-16-2002 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brazilian_Blues_Boy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump
don't let it die !!

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AlfredB18

Master Don Juan
posted 11-18-2002 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlfredB18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dee-Zy:
Really good post!
Thumbz up!

now, tha hardest part of it is.
HOW to think like that when you never had a girl and you WAN'T to know how it is like!

j/k
Peace Out
DZ


Get stabbed in the back a few times (especially in my AFC days) by some "innocent" young ladies and that mode of thinking becomes MUCH EASIER.

(I wish I was joking...)

Heh, at least I shed that "gotta' have the wife and 2.5 kids" numbness that everyone else seems to get into. I've only been dating since 18 (5 years) and I like life without the shackles....

[This message has been edited by AlfredB18 (edited 11-18-2002).]

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Sting

Master Don Juan
posted 11-18-2002 01:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sting     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AlfredB18:
Heh, at least I shed that "gotta' have the wife and 2.5 kids" numbness that everyone else seems to get into. I've only been dating since 18 (5 years) and I like life without the shackles....

Here, here! I was recently having a conversation with a friend of mine about the whole wife and 2.5 kids scenario (he has them). He couldn't understand why I hadn't settled down at age 32. He indicated that I didn't have much more to prove from a professional standpoint, so it was time to consider getting married and raising the next generation.

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