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DJRAZR

Master Don Juan
posted 04-08-2001 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DJRAZR     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
O.K., you�ve spotted her across the crowded room. In your mind, you�re confident that she�s the �one�. You slowly make your way to her. Your heart is pounding. Your palms are sweating. You reach her�. and then�


You open your mouth. You blow it! No second chances, bub.

Tip #1: Don�t request a date immediately. Wait until a conversation first occurs before asking her out.

For God�s sake, at least find out her name first! If she doesn�t know who in the world you are� no matter how nice, charming or goodlooking you may be, chances are VERY slim that she�s going to want to go out with a complete stranger.

Tip #2: Don�t pounce upon her the minute that she walks into the place.

A woman wants to become accustomed to her new surroundings, have a drink, talk to friends or relax before being rushed by a man who descends on her like a vulture to prey. Let her start enjoying herself before making your first move.

Tip #3: Don�t overdo it with flattery or flowery compliments.

�Your eyes light up the room like moonlight on still waters...�


Pleeeeease! Even if you�re sincere when throwing her a line like that. she�s going to have a tough time swallowing it. Compliments are all well and good, but don�t overdo it. When you DO say something nice, go for a nice casual comment like �You have a great smile� as opposed to �Nice rack ya got there!�.

Tip #4: If buying her a drink, don�t expect a miracle.

She may say �thank you�, but even that�s no guarantee. Better to send her a drink anonymously. This conjures up an element of mystery or intrigue that can inspire her to �investigate� the sender and personally thank you. This can lead to a conversation which can lead to� whatever.

Tip #5: When approaching a group of women, don�t hit on one after another.

Use your head. Every woman wants to feel special. If she sees you going from woman to woman like Musical Chairs, that �special� factor is tossed right out the window.

Tip #6: Don�t be desperate, overanxious or pushy. Respect her space and don�t get grabby or physical.

So many men ignore this rule. There�s a big difference between being pleasantly persistant and being an absolute nuisance. Keep your encounter with her conversational and friendly. Don�t ruin it by putting your arm around her. You may think you�re suave and debonair. Chances are, she thinks you�re an ******* .

Tip #7: Ask for her phone number ONLY if you plan on using it.

If you�re lucky enough to actually get her phone number on a napkin, your job is only half complete. Dial her up. She wouldn�t give you her number if she didn�t want you to call her.

Tip #8: Ask her out at least two or three days in advance.

Don�t try to rush the date. This wreaks of desperation. Play it cool, boy. Good things come to those who wait.

Tip #9: Don�t ask her to go away with you on a vacation, to a wedding or an office function.

You�ve just met her! She barely knows you, so a trip to Tahiti or your cousin�s barmitzvah are not prime choices for a first date.

Tip #10: Spend the money on breath mints.

Otherwise, you�ll never get past �hello�.

IP: 152.163.213.68

NEANDERTHAL SUPERSOLDIER

Master Don Juan
posted 04-08-2001 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NEANDERTHAL SUPERSOLDIER     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
moved to tips section. respond over there.

IP: 65.224.236.185

Narcissisto

Don Juan
posted 04-09-2001 12:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Narcissisto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"She wouldn�t give you her number if she didn�t want you to call her."

I don't think this part of your tip is correct! Many women do this to have fun phucking with you as if you actually had a chance with her!

IP: 150.216.102.144

Surfboard

Master Don Juan
posted 04-09-2001 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Surfboard     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
I don't think this part of your tip is correct!

I agree 100%.

IP: 205.188.193.168

Ralph Bellamy

Don Juan
posted 05-21-2002 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ralph Bellamy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[B]"She wouldn�t give you her number if she didn�t want you to call her."

I don't think this part of your tip is correct! Many women do this to have fun phucking with you as if you actually had a chance with her!

I have to agree...sometimes a woman is quick to hand you a phone number that's fictional or a pager number that's never answered, because they don't have the guts to say "no." There's another tip somewhere on the site that suggests looking at the phone number and reading it back to her, intentionally getting one digit wrong to see if she corrects you. If she does, bingo.

IP: 172.159.152.200

afterbuzz

Don Juan
posted 05-21-2002 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for afterbuzz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
are you a woman, dj razr? just wondering

IP: 213.200.0.211

De La Soul

Master Don Juan
posted 08-10-2002 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for De La Soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just remembered where I've seen these tips before.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/tips2.htm

DJRAZR has just lifted the headings and changed the words slightyly.

IP: 203.45.75.64

tome4

Master Don Juan
posted 08-10-2002 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tome4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by De La Soul:
I just remembered where I've seen these tips before.


http://www.sosuave.com/articles/tips2.htm

DJRAZR has just lifted the headings and changed the words slightyly.


When will some of you guys stop doing that?

What does it mean to be famous on A FORUM.
Get a life dude.

IP: 195.252.102.33

De La Soul

Master Don Juan
posted 08-10-2002 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for De La Soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^

I wouldn't say he's "famous" (how famous can ANYONE be on this?) on the forum but I agree.

Soul

IP: 203.45.75.64

Jester

Master Don Juan
posted 08-10-2002 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jester     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that was one pathetic ass post.


weak tips. its even worse that you had to steal them, lol.

IP: 68.44.165.136

tome4

Master Don Juan
posted 08-10-2002 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tome4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by De La Soul:
^^^

I wouldn't say he's "famous" (how famous can ANYONE be on this?) on the forum but I agree.

Soul



What I meant is that a lot of guy want to be "the new Pook".

Although I respect him very much, and consider him a very good poster, no man is god.
Why does anywhone think he is?

IP: 195.252.102.39

stuartSan

Moderator
posted 08-12-2002 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for stuartSan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heh, chill. Its been over a year already.

IP: 210.187.114.170

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