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Master Don Juan
posted 07-29-2000 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anti-Dump     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Becoming exclusive with a woman means the both of you talk about not dating or seeing anyone else. The dating with others comes to an end.

Never ask a women to become exclusive. She must ask YOU. She must talk about it FIRST.
Why? If a woman hasn't asked you yet it means she is still open to seeing others. She still has DOUBTS about you. Highly interested women don't want you going out with other women.

A woman asking for exclusivity is like a 'marriage proposal'. She is cementing and laying the foundation for true intimacy.
She wants something that's lasting. It is the ULTIMATE test of interest, guys. She is 'proposing'.

If you ask first, you will never know her true interest level. Why didn't she bring it up? How come she is still letting you see others? Why isn't she CLOSING her options? Is she seeing someone else?

Think about it.

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Hidden-Danjer

Master Don Juan
posted 07-29-2000 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hidden-Danjer   Click Here to Email Hidden-Danjer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh dear!
What did I go and do the other day?

Not to worry!

She did tell me that I am her "one and only" though! Actually, she told me that there is nobody else that she "feels this way about".
-Awww sweet!

I suggested it and she agreed!

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*Hidden-Danjer* -Top english geezer

And you better believe it matey! :)

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Master Don Juan
posted 07-29-2000 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anti-Dump     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hidden-Danjer,

Did she say "I was wondering about that too?". Or "I'm glad you brought this up"?

I used to mention it first myself. One girl said that she wanted to know about that.

Did she act RELIEVED? Did she act like you defused a bomb?

A woman can like a guy a rather small amount and agree. Relationships are built on action, not words.

SHE HAS TO ASK, Matey. Then you know for sure. Good luck next time. Just keep it in the back of your mind.

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Hidden-Danjer

Master Don Juan
posted 07-29-2000 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hidden-Danjer   Click Here to Email Hidden-Danjer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not relievedas such.

I think she was more concerned about re-assuring me that there is nobody else for her.

Oh well, if she goes, she goes.

I like this one too, but you can't afford to get obsessed unless she is first. :o)

hmm two people obsessed with each other?
Is THAT what they call love? :o)

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*Hidden-Danjer* -Top english geezer

And you better believe it matey! :)

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Master Don Juan
posted 07-29-2000 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anti-Dump     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hidden-Danjer,

I wish you all the happiness in the world with her.

Enjoy life and have fun.
I enjoyed talking to you tonight.

Give her a big kiss when you see her. Talk to you later.

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NEANDERTHAL SUPERSOLDIER

Master Don Juan
posted 07-13-2001 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NEANDERTHAL SUPERSOLDIER     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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TheAssassin

Don Juan
posted 07-26-2001 02:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheAssassin   Click Here to Email TheAssassin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rule #2

Men start the dating process.

Women start the relationship.

Women are the competive sex,use it against them.

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koolbreeze

Don Juan
posted 03-13-2002 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for koolbreeze   Click Here to Email koolbreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah well dont worry we all blow it from time to time.. I asked first and since then she was always bringing up some other guy or friend. we are broken up. but friends.

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trickynick

Master Don Juan
posted 03-29-2002 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trickynick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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