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TheAssassin

Don Juan
posted 07-25-2001 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheAssassin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A very common response that a man will hear is "I have a boyfriend", but this is not the end of the opportunity. Put her on the spot and set her for the kill.
My favorite response to this is "Would it make him mad if we met for 1 hr at lunch?" The answer you will always get is "YES", and then you got her. Remind her that getting mad about meeting other "new friends" (and use the term friends) is a form of jealously and jealously is a just another term for "no confidence". The idea here is to display yourself as a new friend (who has confidence)and put her on the spot because she admitted that her boyfriend has no confidence. This works great for people that you can see on a semi-regular basis,because it will raise doubt in her mind whether she knows it or not. Then cross her path every 10-12 days and strike up a friendly non-chalant conversation while maintaining your best DJ image (positive body language,discussing her feelings) If you approach with a confidant, we're just gonna have fun together manner ,she will begin to look at you and her boyfriend from different perspectives.

Dont be a lady killer..... Be an assassin

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Freestyler

Master Don Juan
posted 07-25-2001 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Freestyler     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I like that idea! Nice advice!

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MaMo

Master Don Juan
posted 07-25-2001 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MaMo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to meet your GF or future GFs TheAssassin. Because according to you it's a win win situation, everyone can get a piece of her or make you have no confidence in her eyes.

IP: 66.76.31.40

Drew

Moderator
posted 07-25-2001 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Drew     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MaMo:
I want to meet your GF or future GFs TheAssassin. Because according to you it's a win win situation, everyone can get a piece of her or make you have no confidence in her eyes.

My thoughts exactly MaMo. ; )

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spank

Master Don Juan
posted 07-25-2001 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for spank     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
" You better make sure that her boyfriend
won't pop you in the mouth. "

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TheAssassin

Don Juan
posted 07-25-2001 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheAssassin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never get jealous and I encourage my GF's and it is plural, to meet new people. If you always display confidence,charm and challenge, she will say no because she is happy. It's quite simple, if you put enough girls into your rotation,you don't care if she leaves, because she wasn't the "perfect mate".

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lordclem*

Master Don Juan
posted 08-07-2001 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lordclem*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ah hahahahaha i like that A
i like it a lot

IP: 213.122.204.147

Gaming111

Master Don Juan
posted 08-08-2001 06:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My favorite response to "I have a boyfriend" is "I don't see him here."

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diplomatic_lies

Master Don Juan
posted 09-03-2002 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for diplomatic_lies     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't do it in a suburb where the crime rate is counted in "boxes of ammunition fired in last 24 hours". Or a place where they sort out different types of crimes by the type of bullets used.

IP: 210.50.202.144

Shiftkey

Master Don Juan
posted 09-06-2002 02:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shiftkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good thing this tip was bumped. I could actually use this idea right now.

IP: 216.249.84.249

College_Man

Don Juan
posted 09-07-2002 02:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for College_Man     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When a chick tells me they have a boyfriend I always respond with "Well, boyfriends come and go. All I'm asking for is friendship."

Makes you look confident, in control, and a challenge.

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MattB

Master Don Juan
posted 09-07-2002 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MattB     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is pretty good advice.

I am interested in this 8.5 and I "think" she has a bf. This would be a challenge,but if I succeed, it would certaintly improve my dj skills. Now lets just hope his bf doesnt know karate...

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JayPsychotic

Don Juan
posted 09-11-2002 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JayPsychotic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hrm.. this could come in use.. there's this girl (yes, the same from those of you that read my first post) and her boyfriends a real ****.. cheats on her.. controls her actions.. the whole works..

i could get her with this.. or just have fun ^_~

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- Jay
"... And so the wolf devoured little red riding hood... And lived happily ever after..."

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Shadow Dancer

Don Juan
posted 09-14-2002 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shadow Dancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I disagree with this. This is a "no-class" move in my opinion. If she has a boyfriend, why not just respect that and leave it be? Whether she REALLY does or not is irrelevant cause you won't know for sure either way.

I see this as a cowardly act. I'm not even close to being perfect but I do make an effort to keep my intergrity intact. Try living your life above such pettiness and you may find that you'll like yourself more. In so doing, you'll attract more women naturally.

Word.

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I danced till midnight when the sky turned black,
It is hard to dance with the Devil on your back.
They buried my body and thought I'd gone,
But I am the dance and I still go on.

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Ralph Bellamy

Master Don Juan
posted 09-14-2002 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ralph Bellamy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Shadow Dancer:
I disagree with this. This is a "no-class" move in my opinion. If she has a boyfriend, why not just respect that and leave it be? Whether she REALLY does or not is irrelevant cause you won't know for sure either way.

Okay here's my thing on this: first of all, this assumes she even *has* a boyfriend. I am suspecting a majority of my crash-and-burns lately are women inventing phoney BF's on the spot, and if that's the case that can be busted easily. I now challenge women who claim they have BF's, asking for details, etc.

I have no qualms about putting some kind of doubt in her mind, hinting that the guy is showing obvious signs he's playing her/using her/breaking up with her soon/about to dump her/fooling around with her, etc., then when it comes true she finds me again. I don't consider that breaking up a relationship, I just consider it "timing." It's been done to me and everyone else just shrugs it off and expects me to do the same. Fine, but it works the other way too.

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thecraftylefty

Don Juan
posted 09-14-2002 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thecraftylefty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm going to get straight to the point here. I don't believe it is wrong to try to take another guy's girlfriend. And here's my reasoning behind it. Let's say you've got a decent job and make pretty good money. Then all of a sudden you get a promotion out of the blue. You make more money and have a different position, but it's one that you're more interested in.

Compare that anecdote to the dating game. A guy comes across a girl who just happens to be in a happy and stable relationship with her boyfriend. You come along and give her the opportunity to be with someone better. You make her feel better about herself, make her feel sexy, and make her feel intelligent. She likes being around YOU more than her boyfriend. She decides to break up with him because she's found a better suitor. YOU. You just happened to come along at the "right time." She's entitled to have something better if she finds it, as are you. She just got an unexpected promotion, that's all.

Now if she's married that's an entirely different situation. Until then it's game on.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty

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expensive

Don Juan
posted 11-04-2002 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for expensive     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah...

"there's nothing wrong with letting the babies know you're money and that you want to party."

Trent - from swingers

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