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Makaveli

Don Juan
posted 11-09-2001 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Makaveli     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are signs which girls might give you if they're attracted to ya:

1) Smile a lot at ya

2) Laugh at all your jokes, even if they're not funny

3) Make lots of eye contact

4) Pupils dilate when looking at you (they dilate naturally though when you drunk or are in dark light)

5) Touch you - like holding your hand or hugging you etc.

6) Brush hair often when chatting to you (could be ambiguous coz they may just be oing it naturally, on the other hand, they could be flustered and nervous)

7) Arms aren't crossed when talking to you

8) Seems jealous when you flirt with other girls

9) Asks your friends about you

10) Tries to make friends with your friends

11) Phones you up and generally wants to be with you


Anyone able to think of more signs? Please post here!

-Makaveli da Don

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tristan22

Don Juan
posted 11-09-2001 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tristan22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
guys

I've noticed when i'm at the bar, every girl i talk to has dilated pupils. I know i'm good looking, however i realize that every girl isn't going to be interested in me!

Can you experts fill me in?

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CobraGT

Master Don Juan
posted 11-09-2001 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CobraGT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bars are a dark place and most eyes are dilated. It may be hard to recognize the affects of the dark from the affects of interest.

CobraGT

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Danger Ranger

Don Juan
posted 11-09-2001 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Danger Ranger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
CobraGT is right. Also, alcohol will also cause the pupils to dilate. What matters most is whether they dilate more than they are normally. Try to judge her normal dilation when she's talking to a friend, ordering a drink, or looking away for a while.

DR

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IntermediateDonJuaner

Master Don Juan
posted 11-10-2001 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not completely true here,Makaveli.

Some women may be showing you all these signs of attractions in a way to lead you on.

So your signs are not realible.!

Have a nice day!

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Makaveli

Don Juan
posted 11-10-2001 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Makaveli     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, so it might be true that they may be leading you on with those signs too, but some of them are given out by girls who find you attractive. You've just got to learn to differentiate between the girls who are leading you on and the sincere ones.

They are reliable

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IntermediateDonJuaner

Master Don Juan
posted 11-10-2001 06:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not really realible yet.!

You did not mention how to differentiate between interested women and women that lead men on

Clarify here on how to differentiate between interested women and women that lead men on


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Makaveli

Don Juan
posted 11-10-2001 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Makaveli     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I honestly don't think it's possible to find out if they're leading you on or not, unless you ask for their number, they give it, then they go out on a date with you. If they do that, it shows they're interested in you.

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IntermediateDonJuaner

Master Don Juan
posted 11-11-2001 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think that's a good answer , Makaveli.

There are many professional daters outside and you cannot expect them to be that innocent.!

Your signs of attraction list is GOOD!,but it is not good enough to weed out those that are not interested in us.!

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ChrisFl

Master Don Juan
posted 11-11-2001 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChrisFl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice list... if only some of those things would happen.

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 01-10-2002 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If only the moderator could moderate his own insecurity.

Great post.

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Giovanni Casanova

Master Don Juan
posted 01-10-2002 12:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Giovanni Casanova     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If a girl has sex with you, this is a signal that she may, possibly, maybe, perhaps be interested in you.

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Vatican

Master Don Juan
posted 01-10-2002 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vatican     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dilated pupils--sign of attraction or heavy LSD use?

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DJTrainee

Don Juan
posted 01-10-2002 03:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DJTrainee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
If a girl has sex with you, this is a signal that she may, possibly, maybe, perhaps be interested in you.

ROFL

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Vatican

Master Don Juan
posted 01-10-2002 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vatican     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or maybe it is heavy LSD use and she hallucinated you into Brad Pitt. That would explain the sex.

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BGMan

Master Don Juan
posted 01-11-2002 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BGMan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.

First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)

Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her!

There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words.

BGMan

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Giovanni Casanova

Master Don Juan
posted 01-11-2002 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Giovanni Casanova     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by BGMan:
First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)

I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.

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BGMan

Master Don Juan
posted 01-12-2002 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BGMan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.

I noticed that. That was for other dudes.

BGMan

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KinoOI

Master Don Juan
posted 01-12-2002 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KinoOI     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by BGMan:
It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.

First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)

Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her!

There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words.

BGMan


Just gona post that! lol, great ideas man!

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Don Scotta

Master Don Juan
posted 04-03-2002 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don Scotta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I realize this post is old. But, something about the whole pupils dilating thing.

I think that we all recognize this subconciously. I could always tell by the 'way' a girl looked at me if she liked me. Reading about the pupils dilating just sorta clarified it for me.

So I wouldn't concentrate too much on pupil size, more on the general way she is lookin at ya. Sorry if this is too vague.

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Amlothi

Master Don Juan
posted 04-03-2002 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amlothi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.

But at this point, who really cares if she likes you or not? Fvck her (literally and figuratively).

So then, is there no absolute way to know if a girl really likes you for sure, positively, 100%?

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CFH25

Don Juan
posted 04-09-2002 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CFH25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yea sometime they do all that he listed above. But in my experiences girls freakin never smile at me, only the sunshine chicks. I mean im freakin serious, they just give me the i love you look. Its very confusing to me, i know this because i see certain girls staring at me,they do do some of the things mostly with there hair, eye contact . I wish some girl actually did all the things that the brother mentioned above. But then i guess it would be too easy.

CFH
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glowstix

Master Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for glowstix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the pupil dilating is a proven fact?

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Turbobird

Master Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Turbobird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Always assume she is attracted of you. Quit analyzing.

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Coolbreeze43

Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolbreeze43     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pupil dilating is just one clue. I have to have several other signs to know for sure if they are interested. Like showing of wrists, stroking hair, listening intently, asking questions... etc.
One thing on Pupils dilating, when talking... if you see them all of a sudden get smaller. You are probably saying something that they don't like. If you see them get bigger, you are on the right path. I try to use it to help calibrate the way I talk to them.

Coolbreeze43

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