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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 11-25-2001 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Next time you see her, you will grab you balls and ask the damn phone number.

I know.. you know. You will get scared. You will because you�re not in the right mood� Suddenly, thinking and believing you are the great catch will seem laughable� and you will do what you�ve always done : nothing.

No, you can no longer accept that kind of behavior.

Next time you see her, no matter what happens, you will grab your balls and do ask her out. There are no excuses except these two

1. You discover she has a bf,
2. She tells you to get the fukk out of her sight.

You have to accept that this will probably feel ackward. You have to accept that you may get a "no" as an answer, or an unconvincing yes (which means no).

But hell, you did it. The only downside is some colateral damage to your ego, but let�s face it, if she�s not interested, waiting to see what happens only means postponing the hurt.

By being clear right away (" what�s your phone number " = I�m interested) you come off as a MAN. Not a boy. A MAN. A man who can grab his balls.

And if the answer is no, you know you can always move on to other and better things : you are free again. Besides, the pain will disappear with time, and you know you can make it 30 seconds. This is nothing compared to the pride you will experience, because you had the guts to grab your balls and make a darn move. You don�t have to wonder about her feelings anymore : you are a free man.

Now let�s imagine she is interested.

Let me tell you something, shying away (or waiting to be in the right mood) will only decrease her interest level. It is your role to ask her out, not hers. Waiting means entering the dreaded zone where it feels ackward to ask her phone number because you both get mixed signals form each other. Yes, she moved on to other and better things. Worse off, you may even fall in the most putrid circle of Hell : the friend zone.

You�re probably asking youself if she is interested. Shut up, brain. Just shut up and grab your balls. Asking the phone number will clear things up. It will either bring you an immense feeling of pride and liberation (if she says no) or a potential relationship. Whatever happens, you win.

But one more thing� I know you. You are still reviewing all her signals� asking yourself if she likes you� YES YOU MORON : SHE LIKES YOU! LISTEN VERY WELL : SHE LIKES YOU. SHE WANTS YOU TO GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS AND MAKE A GODDAMMM MOVE.

STOP WONDERING AND GO FOR IT OR I WILL CHASE YOU FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE AND KICK YOUR REAR TILL YOU DIE.

THERE IS NO STRATEGY HERE, YOU PATHETIC CHUMP.

LIFE IS A DEMOLITION DERBY : YOU JUST GOTTA GRAB YOUR FUKKING BALLS.

THIS IS NO JOKE : IF YOU SHY AWAY, I WILL FIND YOU. I WILL GET MY REVENGE YOU FUKKING IDIOT.

THIS IS THE OLD " YOU " TALKING, I�M 70 YEARS OLDER AND I AM ON MY FUKKING DEATH BED. BECAUSE OF YOU AND YOUR GODDAMM SHYNESS, I LED A MISERABLE LIFE. I MISSED TONS OF OPPORTUNITIES BECAUSE OF YOU AND I'M GLAD YOUR FUTURE IS MY PRESENT REALITY. MY CANCER IS NOTHING COMPARED TO THE PAIN OF REGRET. THIS IS WHAT HURTS THE MOST AND I OWE IT ALL TO YOU.

YES YOU GODDAMMMM FUKKING MOTHERFUKKA, SHE LIKES YOU. ISN�T THAT CLEAR ENOUGH YOU INCOMMENSURABLE HEAP OF ROAD APPLES?

AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGHHHHHH!

I rest my case.

P.S. Do it or I kill you.


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[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 11-25-2001).]

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 11-25-2001 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just love this post. This is the most practical thing I've written so far in this forum.

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meatloaf

Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meatloaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha nice post challenge guy. You are so right that even if you are not in the mood you still have to force your ass over and go for it. Very practical and applicable.

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Jwheatly

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 03:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jwheatly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A work of art.

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Don the Legend

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don the Legend     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very true Challenge Guy!

Nice reality check for us.

Legend

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"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend

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Character

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Character     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
man i like that post. im kinda thinkin differently on how i deal with the HS girls. i know most of them want me but im just afraid to ask for the number. nice post dude thats straight and to the point.

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Monkey

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Monkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A monster mash of slaughterous insanity speaking a terrible truth! Great Post Chalenge Guy!

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Nice guys wait, GOOD guys date!

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wjboogy

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wjboogy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you act like girls cant make a move.

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks guys. I'm making a move tomorrow night (I was talking to myself in this post... but I thought it would be nice to share it with you).

quote:
you act like girls cant make a move.

Women only have one move to make in this game : raise your interest and get you to ask the number.

If you are interested in her she's done her job.

PERIOD.


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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.

- Roosevelt

Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.

THE DJ BIBLE

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wjboogy

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wjboogy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ha! what universe do you live in.

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wjboogy

Master Don Juan
posted 11-26-2001 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wjboogy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
theres no game here. This is 2 people with vocal cords. Whoever feels like talking,talks.

I think you need to live a little bud

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Lorenzo

Moderator
posted 11-26-2001 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lorenzo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And so it came to pass, a comoner from our ranks has risen a new man, ready to lead us on our way to enlightenment!


Beautiful...

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IntermediateDonJuaner

Master Don Juan
posted 11-27-2001 02:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the most crap thing I have ever read in the tips forum since I became a moderator.

Asking for phone numbers doesn't prove that she likes you because some girls just like to play guys. Understand? They will give out their numbers to make you happy in a way that you will think she's interested. I will say asking her out on a date will be a 100% interest test!

okay?

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 11-27-2001 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
They will give out their numbers to make you happy in a way that you will think she's interested. I will say asking her out on a date will be a 100% interest test!


Of course, what's a phone # if you don't even call ? That was so obvious I didn't think it was worth mentionning.

Asking the # is the first step. Of course she may be trying to trick you (make you happy). But you will never know if you don't grab your balls and ask the number (IMPLYING THAT YOU WILL CALL HER LATER, LET'S SAY IN A WEEK, TO ASK HER OUT ON A DATE... yes...)

Stop expecting the worst outcome. Just pretend she is interested. No, that's not it. SHE IS INTERESTED.

You know what? This inclination to emphasize adverse aspects, conditions, and possibilities will just ruin your life.

Grab your balls and start by moderating pessimism.

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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.

- Roosevelt

Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.

THE DJ BIBLE

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 11-27-2001 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
ha! what universe do you live in. theres no game here. This is 2 people with vocal cords. Whoever feels like talking,talks.
I think you need to live a little bud

I know it can be frustrating, but you could wait a whole lifetime till a woman finally decides to approach you and ask you on a date... These things happen, yes, but waiting for them is downright stupid.

You know what, I'm nothing more than a few words in the virtual space... so why do you want to convince me with these cynical posts of yours?

Oh... ok. I get it. You need a place or opening through which your frustration can flow freely.

But let me tell you something. When you finally embrace and accept the workings of this fukked up universe, when you finally destroy that shyness, this thread won't bother you anymore.

Here's how it works in a nutshell :

FEMALE : ATTRACT MATE
MALE : APPROACH

Accept it.

Embrace it.

This is not only the universe I live in. It's yours too.


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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.

- Roosevelt

Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.

THE DJ BIBLE

[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 11-27-2001).]

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Centaurion

Master Don Juan
posted 11-27-2001 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Centaurion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
a really good post CHALENGE GUY. Beautiful...

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wjboogy

Master Don Juan
posted 11-27-2001 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wjboogy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EXPLAIN WHY MY FIRST AND ONLY GIRLFRIEND APPROACHED ME?ILL ALLOW YOU TO SHUT YOUR LIPS NOW.

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 11-28-2001 06:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh well...

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Anson

Master Don Juan
posted 11-28-2001 07:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anson     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by wjboogy:
EXPLAIN WHY MY FIRST AND ONLY GIRLFRIEND APPROACHED ME?ILL ALLOW YOU TO SHUT YOUR LIPS NOW.


Okay, let me explain it to you. The reason you've only had one gf so far is that males do the approaching.

Now did you get it?

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lordclem*

Master Don Juan
posted 11-28-2001 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lordclem*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok ok ok ok ok ok ok i will damn it i will
yahhhahahayhyahyaah shiff sniff.

sorry its that two girls gave me buy signals i didnt close them.one today and one yesterday.i feel let i am sliping back into AFC mode.your post gave me a kick in the ass.

thanx

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DonJoey

Master Don Juan
posted 11-29-2001 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DonJoey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with Challenge Guy.

And some women will approach a guy that's true, but the chances of that happening are low. Now do you wanna go through life on the low chances or do you wanna go through life making your own chances and your own luck?

I believe that nothing happens unless you want it to happen somehow.
I spent the past few weeks not calling this girl as I wasnt sure I liked her, and I wasnt sure if she liked me.
But I ended up calling her anyway on the off chance and the fact that I had nothing to lose but my dignity and that I knew i'd be sick of hearing myself complain about another lost opportunity gone by.

I ended up calling and it was positive. I feel better for it. Now if I didnt call, i'd be at home pulling myself instead of getting some real ass.

As Challenge Guy says, when you're old (and my dad who's 68 says the same), you'll think back on your life and wonder why the fcuk you were so scared to do so many things you wished you could do when you're old.

In love or in anything, if there's something you want to try or a person you'd like to meet, go out there and make it happen.
You are in control of your own destiny, sometimes things dont happen and for those of you who always find something about some post to complain about, dont use the setbacks as a reason to discard everything you've learnt etc but think of how you can refine and learn more.
I did the same and now i've got my DJ skills down to a nice system like McDonalds - and i'm having success....but it took time and small steps and refinement and most of all it took a shift in thinking that required me to grab my balls and squeeze tight if I didnt think I was doing things to my maximum potential.

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IntermediateDonJuaner

Master Don Juan
posted 12-05-2001 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hehe. Perhaps this post from challenge-guy seems to have one thing common with my latest thread "Just forget everything and grow a nutsack" that is GROW not one,not two but five big pair of nutsacks!

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Ack

Don Juan
posted 12-05-2001 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ack     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha... kickass post Challenge guy

I agree with you totally. One has to be the GOD of his own damn universe, not just some pathetic minion. You can't lose any ****in' thing except your pride if you don't ask for the #

Nice to see that there are still MEN around. And a lot of them are on this forum. On the other hand, a lot of the whiney-boys are too. I used to be one

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wannabe

Don Juan
posted 12-10-2001 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wannabe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so does it help if you actually physically grab your testicles while approaching a woman?

just goofin

good post

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 12-10-2001 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL...

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