posted 12-18-2001 10:13 PM
Zo, it can be a little tricky in HS because of age and maturity levels, but it can still be done nevertheless. I don�t know if you�re already seeing other girls at the moment but here is what I suggest. After establishing one or two relationships the old fashioned way through the number close, start applying the kiss close to other girls you approach; you�d be surprised at the results.
It�ll open up your eyes to a different perspective of the pimpin�game. If you don�t try it, you�ll never know.
SS, yeah I use variations depending on what I feel like saying, what the circumstances are and what we talked about.
Attention Getter/Eye-Contact Words along the lines of: Alright, well�, Alright, so�, Ok, well�, Ok, so�, �etc.
Closing Phrases along the lines of: �I�ll see you <later/soon/etc>, �have a good night,
�have fun <tomorrow/this weekend/etc>, �<<or anything relevant to the conversation that you want lingering in her mind until you call her>>.
Make sure the phrase is not too short or too long so that it�s easier to time while you go in. Women remember the beginning and the ending of a conversation most vividly, so you want to be sure you go out with a bang.
SB, good point, there certainly is a nice element of challenge to the kiss close as you say. It definitely works great after getting numbers at parties since the situation is conducive to socializing. The only drawback is that it should be done when you�re planning on leaving the party if you want to retain the challenge.
What I do is socialize with the girls I�m attracted to while trying my best to be �in sight�. I target the convo for about 10 minutes on each girl as I make my rounds. I close with the number on every girl but I withhold kiss closing any of them until I�m ready to leave.
I also might engage in 5-10 more minutes of convo with one of the girls I�ve already spoken to if I happen to run across her again. Once I�m ready to go, I find the girl I had the best convo with and I spend 1-2 minutes saying goodbye. Then I go in with a kiss close line and I leave.
If the other girls you were talking to and got numbers from see you kiss her, it will make them jealous; not the �angry already in a relationship� type jealous but the kind of jealousy that makes you more of a challenge to them.
You�re right that this tip is perfect for other places such as around campus, stores, malls cafes, gyms, and other places too. But when pick-ups are done in places other than at parties, clubs or bars, there is a chance that she may only give you a peck instead of the full kiss.
I don�t know exactly why, but it may be partly due to the combination of the pick-up situation and their reluctance. I�ve run into a few who�ve only given me a peck, while the majority gave me the full kiss.
I�m starting to come to the conclusion that whether she decides to give you the full kiss or the peck depends on how well the approach went and how well you two clicked.
At the beginning stages of my field-testing, about 2/4 gave me a full kiss as compared to about 4/5 now. But when I�m on a date or picking-up a girl in a socializing situation, I�ve also never run into a girl who didn�t end up giving me a full kiss.
I�m pretty sure the increased success rate is due to focusing on kiss closing during my approaches rather than simply number closing. My approaches have been becoming smoother and smoother as a result.
I see it like a game of darts where the dart is the smoothness of your approach, the kiss close is the bull�s-eye and the number close is any other area on the board. The closer the dart is to the bull�s-eye, the better your chances are of getting the date (or booty call) and the higher the interest level you�ve created for yourself.
I would wait a minimum of 2-3 days after kiss closing to call. For example if I closed on Sat. I�d call on Tues. or Wed. But if I closed on Mon., I�d wait until Sun. If I�ve booked myself up all week with women I�m currently dating along with new ones I�ve met, I stop making new calls even if I have excess numbers because I don�t like to schedule dates more than a few days in advance. So some of those girls are going to have to wait until I have room to fit them in, that�s just how the game works.
-Pimp