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bartender

Master Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bartender     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Some ex-AFC's blame the girls they know for having used them for attention and as an emotional tampon when they were an AFC.

Now that they've become a Dj they want to punish those girls or take revenge in another way.

Who is to blame here?
It was the AFC's own fault. If the AFC was smarter back then and had some self-respect he wouldn't have let the girl use him.

So don't put the blame on the girl. Don't try to take revenge or something. That's too personal and not a dj thing to do. Instead of trying to take revenge use that anger to improve yourself.


Oh and if you think revenge can be sweet I agree it can sometimes be better than sex. However don't consume too much sweet things and if you do brush your teeth every now and then. Capiche


(the meaning of AFC can be found right here: www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml )

[This message has been edited by bartender (edited 03-06-2002).]

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myteamouse

Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for myteamouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
excellent advice........."never hate your enemies, it distorts your judgement"- Al Pacino...........but if she comes back to u
expecting the same Friskies Buffet, u have every right to give her the business......(dj style of course).......anything else and you'd be........AFC

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1utfan1

Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 1utfan1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by myteamouse:
excellent advice........."never hate your enemies, it distorts your judgement"- Al Pacino...........but if she comes back to u
expecting the same Friskies Buffet, u have every right to give her the business......(dj style of course).......anything else and you'd be........AFC

This is a very interesting post. I too used to wish for sweet revenge at any cost but now I would only consider it if she came back wanting more. Great post guys!!

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Giovanni Casanova

Master Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Giovanni Casanova   Click Here to Email Giovanni Casanova     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by myteamouse:
excellent advice........."never hate your enemies, it distorts your judgement"- Al Pacino...........but if she comes back to u
expecting the same Friskies Buffet, u have every right to give her the business......(dj style of course).......anything else and you'd be........AFC

You know what's really intersting about this post? Lots of dots.

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CASANOVA

"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

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ArizonaDJ

Master Don Juan
posted 03-09-2002 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ArizonaDJ   Click Here to Email ArizonaDJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm conflicted on this one. I know that anger is best directed at improving ourselves. The problem is that I'm 1/2 Sicilian Revenge is in my blood!

Words of wisdom from the Godfather:

On ex's who come crawling back ...
"Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer."

On understanding women:
"My father taught me to think like those around me would think. Considering that, anything is possible."

On how we all acted towards hot women as AFCs:
"Every time I think I'm out, they pull me back in!!"

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~The_Chosen~

Master Don Juan
posted 03-09-2002 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~The_Chosen~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, when my ex does come back to me, I will play her for the fool she was to leave me when i went 50% AFC and 50% DJ.

She pulled me down from my top DJ status, so I'm definitely "getting" her back. My problem was I tried to change who she was to suit my dream girl, it didn't work, she left and couldn't handle the LDR, fvck, I put alot of effort into teaching her so much about guys, moves, kissing, all that sh!t. Basically I gave, she took and never gave back. I thought she was innocent also, I was only her 2nd bf and she was a major geek in school a year before and then she kinda changed, but I think she goes to some women DJ site to pull all those neg-hitting moves on me.

When she does want me back, I'll take her back...and make her want me incessantly and make her feel how unworthy she is of me, dump her, and then date another girl the next hour

I don't consider it revenge...well not really. I consider it "opening her eyes"

Basically I'm gonna say to her thru actions: "*****, look at what you lost and gave up in"

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~The_Chosen~ has spoken...

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.

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ArizonaDJ

Master Don Juan
posted 03-09-2002 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ArizonaDJ   Click Here to Email ArizonaDJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whenever an ex comes crawling back I'll just use her for sex and nothing more. That way I get what I want and continue to date as if the ex I'm banging doesn't even exist.

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~The_Chosen~

Master Don Juan
posted 03-10-2002 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~The_Chosen~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Watch the "Count of Monte Cristo" it's a pretty good movie except they should've emphasize MORE on the living your life concept than revenge, since the story is about living a good life.

But revenge is sweet and since me and my ex broke up cuz of distance and NOT cuz I was an AFC, it'll be tough on her when I get her back, sicne she did give up. hehehe She'll say, "I always did love you, back then things were different...blah-blah" Then I'll tell her, "Now you see how much I really mean to you, well that's a real shame baby, ciao!" <dumped> hahaha

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~The_Chosen~ has spoken...

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.

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