posted 07-23-2002 04:38 AM            

What did I have that most DJ's-in-training didn't? Ambition.

The most important point I'll contend to is this: just go out and flirt. Don't read tips. It's like wanting to learn how to play basketball by reading articles on it. You won't perfect that jumpshot without practice.

If you want more updated, sage advice from me, read my more recent entries in this Tips section.

posted 07-23-2002 04:48 AM            

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As long as you mention I'm the original author of the post.

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LOL! Of course!

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Actually, I just read through most of these, and you guys aren't necessarily setting yourselves up for success if you read all of them.

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Yep, reading posts alone won't do squat. But I'll pick out the ones I think are best and re-post them, they've got some relevant messages in them.

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What did I have that most DJ's-in-training didn't? Ambition.

The most important point I'll contend to is this: just go out and flirt. Don't read tips. It's like wanting to learn how to play basketball by reading articles on it. You won't perfect that jumpshot without practice.

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Agreed. But when you say "ambition" are you referring to your ambitions in life generally or your ambition to become more confident? If you know what I mean...

De La

posted 07-23-2002 12:20 PM            

And these are the results:

-Quality of girls increases.
-Quantity of girls increases.
-Confidence reaches a peak somewhere along the way that you don't hesitate to think about it anymore.
-You get hints within seconds of talking to a girl, and you know whether to bail and save your time or continue and hit it.
-You develop an intuition of exactly what a girl wants to hear.
-Admiration of fellow guys.
-Intrigue of other girls.

It's probably just a personality thing. I just happen to be successful with nearly everything I do (ha, except academics!) in life because of my perseverance.

posted 07-23-2002 04:30 PM            

It would be great to see these post posted back in a more easily readable format like De La Soul has done with one of them.

I really like how Red-XL deal with interest "sign":

ex:

"If she doesn't reciprocate the gesture, it doesn't mean anything. If she does, it's a strong sign that you're in the money"

or

"If her gestures are closed, don't give up; all it means is that a little more work is required until she can become comfortable with you."

posted 07-23-2002 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Squy:
I just wonder why almost each time Red-xL posted something, he then replied to the same thread: "moderators, send me to Tips section!!!" ?

I would just go to the tips section and post there...

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I'm a fossil in this forum, and they only had three forums when I started:
1. DJ Discussion
2. Suggestions
3. Anything Else

So when they expanded and added a Tips section, I fished for all my posts and bumped them back to the top so the mod's could transfer them with ease.

posted 07-23-2002 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Janez:
Red-xl: How much did this website help you to become that succesful? :>

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When I first figured out to search for help with the ladies online, this was the first site I found, and I spent about 8 hours straight, amazed at what was so logical yet had slipped my grasp all those years. I expanded to other similar sites to harness all the info I could, and when it got redundant, I realized I had learned everything I needed. So I felt ready, went out, and conquered.

Veni. Vidi. Vici.

You can only help yourself. This site is like a handbook that you can use for reference.

1. I got a clue.
2. I changed my behavior and attitude.
3. I succeeded.

Simple pattern.