posted 08-14-2002 05:17 PM            

So how do you do it? Well that's what this post is here for:

1. USE THE CLASSROOM TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. First thing to know is that people are like herds of animals. Wherever they sit on the first day, that's the area they'll go to from now on. On the first day of class when you walk into a room, what do you see? You see a room half full of people sitting 2 to 3 seats appart. Almost everybody in that room is nervous as hell, and they don't feel comfortable. Everyone's sitting there saying, "Man I wish someone would come talk to me." Most likely you do the same thing. But not anymore. When you go into a room, kind of pause just inside the door. Act calm and cool. After all, you are a DJ. Look around the room, and find the girl you want. Try and get a little eye contact first, and then go sit right next to her. Don't worry about getting her to smile first. These girls are nervous, and may just be intimidated by the confidence you display. This is not a bar or club. Girls are not nearly as agressive and flirty at first. Not two seats down, not right behind her. You sit right next to her. Then smile and say, "Hi my names tweeder, what's yours?"

Easy isn't it? Watch her warm up to you right away. She'll think you've got balls of steel for doing something so easy. Every other guy in the room will wathc you with envy and say, "Man why didn't I do that? He must get all the chicks."

2. USE THE CLASSROOM TO GET THE DIGITS. So you hate asking for a phone number because you don't want to look stupid? Well here's another golden chance. After you've been talking to her for the class period, you shoould have made her feel really comfortable. As you leave say, hey why don't we exchange phone numbers in case I miss a day or something. I've never had a girl say no to this. EVER!!!!! It is the wussy way out, but it's a good way to get used to asking. If you're a good DJ, just ask her to give you her number so you can get together for coffee sometime.

3. SAY HI TO EVERYONE EVERYWHERE. So now you're outside of class. You're walking to the bookstore or whatever. What do you see? Tons of hot chicks walking by themselves. Man what are you waiting for? These girls want to talk to you more than you'll ever know. "But why aren't they holding eye contact tweeder?" you might ask. Well you're a DJ, and you look confident. They're intimidated. They'll look once, and then away. Don't worry my friends, you're still in. Just say hi. You'll be amazed at the positive responses you get.

4. YOU DIDN'T THINK THEY WERE REALLY IN THE ACTIVITY CENTER TO STUDY DID YOU? How many times did you go through a center of some sort, and see a girl at a table by herself reading? Too many to count I'd guess. Don't let this fool you. They're waiting for you. They just need to look busy so they don't come off as pathetic. Are some girls really studying? Of course, but not a lot of them. So how do you tell the difference? Her eyes do all the talking you need.

If a girl is wanting a guy to approach, she'll look up every couple of minutes to see who's around. If she's really studying she won't be doing this. She'll be concentrating too much. So if you see a girl, stay in her line of site for a minute. If she looks up, lock eyes and smile. You might catch her off guard and she'll look back down without smiling. Don't worry. Hang around. IF she's interested she'll check you out again. When she does just go to her table and ask if you can join her. Tell her you're waiting for you're next class or whatever. Then go from there. It's easy I promise.

5. THE CONCLUSION TO ALL THIS MESS. It's simple really. Girls are everywhere, and they want to meet you. Colleges are full of chumps that are too scared to approach a girl in the beginning. And the girls are the same way. This makes it hard for them to meet girls. Thank God you're a DJ. You can go get them all while the chumps watch in awe. By the end of the second week you'll have so many numbers your only problem will be which ones to get rid of.

My final point is the most important. I mention it in a lot of my posts, but that's because I want you guys to know it. These posts always say a girl will give you good buying signals when she wants you to approach. Like she'll make good eye contact and smile. THIS IS ONLY IN BARS AND CLUB TYPE ATMOSPHERES. In normal places only extreamly confident women will do this. The others will look away when you make eye contact. Or when you smile. PLEASE DON'T GET DISCOURAGED.

Remember this rule. A woman may look by mistake once, but she'll never make the mistake again. So she may check you out once and realize you're not her type, but she won't look again unless she finds you attractive. So if you make good EC with a woman and she looks away, keep at it. Wait a minute and see. Odds are she'll look again. When she does you're in. You better go for it.

posted 08-14-2002 11:23 PM            

In small classes, talking amongst yourselves during class is rare.

Back onto the subect, this is a great post. Even though I'm about to start my fifth year, I never knew about #4. Yes, I really thought chicks were studying when they were studying. I even worked in the library for a span two years (with a year off right between those two years), as a Student Assistant, and I never once thought twice about them. If I only knew when I was a freshman...

Clouseau

posted 08-15-2002 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by kickman72:
great advice tweeder just one question when im talking to women in collage most of them dont try to contribute to conversations. I ask open ended questions is this normal????

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posted 08-15-2002 10:38 PM            

JPR: Great advice on talking about the prof. Not only is it a good ice breaker, but it will help her relax if she thinks the teacher will be easy. And yes talking in smaller classes is hard. I just usuall have larger classes. As far as approaching a group of girls in the library, I have only did it once. It's intimidating as hell. There were 4 girls working on a project. Here's what I did.

Me: Excuse me ladies, I'm not much of a library man, and I have no idea how to find newspaper articles using the computer. Could one of you help me?

Now I seriously did need help, so I wasn't after any particular girl. But one quickly offered, and she left the group. So by asking for help, the one that is really interested will most likely offer to help you first. At least that's how I see it.

Kickman72: Girls not responding very well does happen. There's a number of reasons. One is that she is really really shy. Another possibility is that she has some controlling boyfriend that doesn't want her talking to other guys. In which case she won't want to talk. Could just be a b**** too. They do exist. I find that if she truely is interested, she'll open up after a question or too. Even the shy ones. Just keep at it.

The Mole: If you don't want your roomates finding this site then don't do it when their around. One possible danger of them seeing you on here is that they might tell some people. This is not good unless you don't care that some of the women at your college know you learn your moves from a website. Personally I don't think it matter though. Hell, girls get their advice from stupid magazines don't they?

posted 08-16-2002 08:40 PM            

I have my orientation on the 4th of september to the 6th, and I am ready to put some of this into effect.

posted 08-16-2002 11:37 PM            

and i did some serious number closing yesterday and today, based on this sole concept of women not dropping buying signals at school.

anyhow, get your foot in the door and start mingling, guys. the girls are for the taking in college, ESPECIALLY in the first weeks.

posted 08-17-2002 01:44 AM            

I was very alpha at my orientation and had good results.

I goto school on the 21st and my school has over 40,000+ students. The ultimate ground for a DJ .

posted 08-17-2002 11:41 PM            

As with 2N Turbo, pimpin' (for me) starts the 26th. 12,000 students -- over 5,000 girls -- not a bad selection to choose from.