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Master Don Juan
posted 08-09-2000 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adonis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
More on Confidence from me:

Do you ever get discouraged on your road to success with women? Does it seem like you're always going 2 steps forward, 1 step back?

Take heart! You�re simply in step with the natural rythm of progress! Progress toward your goals is never going to be a straight line, there are always bumps in the road to send you off course. The trick is to avoid getting discouraged and get back on track. How?

It's our thinking that either motivates us or doesn't. There are ways of thinking that create self-motivation.

* Know that you are a Don Juan!

That�s right! Every man has the capacity to be successful with a woman. Find your inner Don Juan. To experience this level of thinking all you have to do is commit to using your imagination! As adults we have become used to using our imaginations only for worrying. We visualize worst case scenarios all day long. Worry is a misuse of imagination, it was designed for better things. Use your imagination to create and acheive things that worriers never dream of acheiving. Use it not to escape reality, but to create it. Be creative in your approach with women, don�t just blindly follow what other have set. You would be surprised as what you can come up with.

* Have Goals.

Those with no central purpose in their life fall an easy prey to petty worries, fears, troubles, self-pitying and unhappiness. Create a vision of who you want to be and live in that picture as if it were already true. Be clear and specific. Don't let your goal be too small or vague(ie., Date the top of the line, don�t settle for less). It will not be reached if it fails to excite your imagination.

* A goal without action is a daydream.

As stated, JUST DO IT. Don�t sit around and contemplate on how or when you�re going to do it � JUST DO IT!

* Make each day a masterpiece!

That�s right, don�t sit around in front of your TV or computer all day, go out and do something for crying out loud! Focus on what you want and it will come into your life. Focus each day on what you are doing, not on the past or on the future. Focus on now.

* Don't give into fear!

General George Patton said, "Fear kills more people than death." It's true! Fear kills us over and over again. You need to find something(rejection, women) you fear and do it! See what happens. Fear is something that has held you back from doing things that would help you reach your goals with women. As a shy person you shrink back from calling a prospect on the phone or talking to some chick you met at the club or elsewhere. In life we begin fearing what others think of us, afraid of looking bad we stopped taking risks. We can leave that behind by facing the fear that holds us back. Start talking to people you meet anywhere, even the bum next to you in the bus! If you survive this it will make you stronger and much more confident. Give it a try!


[This message has been edited by Adonis (edited 08-09-2000).]



Master Don Juan
posted 08-10-2000 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee-Zy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WHOA! This is ...
If I had 15 thumbs I would of give 15 thumbs up!

It makes me feel like goin to tha mall already and just tlak to every walking things with no d!cks

Peace Out

Prepare yoself fer the KayZeez y'all!!!



Master Don Juan
posted 08-25-2001 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for improvingdonjuan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
moderators send this to the tips section

this is great stuff man keep it up . i feel better already.thanks for giving me that boost

Confidence is the key to women



Don Juan
posted 08-25-2001 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vadrill     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Adonis....nicely done! Need I say more.



Master Don Juan
posted 07-02-2002 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aztec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I have an extra thumb, I'll give you a 3 thumbs up!



Master Don Juan
posted 07-10-2002 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Adonis, you're back!!!!!

The forum needs people like you to help the people who needs to improve....achieve what they want.

Good post.!



Master Don Juan
posted 07-10-2002 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aztec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Originally posted by IntermediateDonJuaner:
Adonis, you're back!!!!!

The forum needs people like you to help the people who needs to improve....achieve what they want.

Good post.!


I don't think Adonis is back. Unfortunately. I just reopened his post because I think he is one of the greatest DJ contributor in this outfit.


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