posted 08-16-2000 07:19 PM
Alright, let's make this short and straight to the point(this is probably a wake up call to most of you people)...
Success with women has little to do with how you act and feel about them, but have a lot to do with how you feel about yourself. What I�m talking about is SELF-RESPECT.
Some of the guys who wouldn't take crap from another guy turn into down-right wimps when it comes to women. They are probably reliving old dramas with their mommies they couldn't please as children, or are scared for some other reason, they put the woman first. Other guys have a different problem. They may not take any crap from the woman, but getting laid is too damn important to them that they lose sight of other priorities. In a sense it loses all the fun aspects, and gets to be a damn obligation.
Guys like this may win the battles, but they are definitely losing the war. Women are nice additions to your life, and if you find the right one then kudos, you might even chose to make her the center of yours. BUT A LIFE SPENT DOING NOTHING BUT TRYING TO GET WOMEN IS A DAMN POINTLESS ONE.
This is problem that people often overlook, ask yourself if you might be missing some of the other pleasures life has to offer. You might be shocked to learn that other things can be more stimulating than a boring date with a huge breasted bimbo that can�t even spell her own name.
Here is an important aspect to raising your confidence with women: STOP NEEDING THEM SO MUCH! Find yourself an exciting hobby(not jerking off), go out and have fun without the constraints and presence of women � women are not and should not be the center of your universe. Do something that gets you AWAY from women.
This will increase your confidence as you are on the lookout for them, it also provides a great escape for when that special woman strains your brain, which by the way, they often will.
[This message has been edited by Adonis (edited 08-17-2000).]