posted 01-04-2002 01:51 PM
I've read the 48 Laws of Power. I have found the following chapters relate directly to being a DJ:
Law 3: Conceal Your Intentions.
Basic DJ tactic to never let the woman know how interested you are. By flirting with other woman (to make her interested in you), you can conceal that you are really after another woman.
Law 4: Always Say Less Than Necessary.
A key to getting a woman interested in you is to *never* reveal too much about yourself. You must remain a mystery.
Law 6: Court Attention at All Costs.
A DJ always trys to have a good time (regardless of chicks around or not): laughing, making jokes and so on so it appears he is an interesting and fun guy. Such behaviour will attract female attention.
Conversely, by holding back and remaining mysterious if not enigmatic, it can also
Law 8: Make Other People Come to You - Use Bait if Necessary.
The true key of seduction is making a woman come to you or make her chase you. By being a challenge, you can create the illusioin she is in control (chasing you) while in fact you are the one controlling her.
Law 9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument.
Arguing with chicks is pointless. They are emotional creatures that really only respond to feeling. For example, your chick tests you and commands you to, "come here now!" Instead of arguing with her saying, "That's not nice. Don't order me around." Get on your hands and knees and say, "Yes, your Royal Higness, my high princess, your every wish is my command." By acting in such a manner, you will get your point across by making her *feel* the import of her transgression.
Law 10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky.
Don't go out with loosers or chicks with major problems.
Law 11: Learn to Keep People Dependant on You.
Be a source of pleasure for a chick, she will find it hard to get rid of you.
Law 12: Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm Your Victim.
Never try to seriously BS a chick. They have built in radars for it. As long as what you reveal can not back fire on you, be truthful on all occasions while don't ever revealing too much.
Law 14: Pose as a Friend, Work as A Spy.
Knowing on what a chick wants is fundamental in being able to manipulate her. While remaining coy, ask questions about their exs, likes, dreams and so on to get key insights into what they *really* want.
Law 16: Use Absence To Increase Respect and Honor.
A fundamental DJ principle of remaining a challenge. Never appear to needy, and only see the chick once a week.
Law 20: Do not Commit to Anyone.
When dating a chick, always date other chicks. Never commit to one unless you are ready to marry.
Law 22: Use the Surrender Tactic: Transform Weakness into Power.
You are on a date with a chick. All of a sudden she bumps into this other guy, then sits on his knee and starts flirting with him. Instead of allowing her the satisfaction of totally belittling you and crushing your ego, surrender by simply leaving. This will anger her because she did not acheive the full satisfaction of humiliating you.
Law 26: Keep Your Hands Clean.
Always appear to a chick (especially when you first meet her) that you are a decent guy and not a serial killer.
Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness.
Always appear confident and bold with a chick. When going for a kiss (or anything else for that matter), do not hesitate at all. Timidity is a huge turnoff.
Law 33: Discover Each Man's Thumbscrew.
In the case of chicks, find her vunerabilities and cheif weaknesses. It may be sometimes necessary to play on her weaknesses to weaken her ego so you can fill the void.
Law 34: Be Royal in Your own Fashion: Act Like a King to Be Treated Like One.
As Pook would say, act like you are a great catch -- an awesome Prince. Expect only the best, and demand it.
Law 35: Master the Art of Timing.
With chicks timing is paramount. There is times to seriously withdraw from her and times to act bold and strike with force when a weakness is present.
Law 36: Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring them is Best Revenge.
A chick is disrespectful to you and blows you off. The next time you see her, you act civil and *completely* ignore her. The lack of attention you show her will drive her nuts and is the sweetest of revenges.
Law 37: Think as You Like But Behave Like Others.
You are a genious and full of great ideas. On a date with a chick you don't tell her your great ideas but indulge in the common small talk that the majority of the population engages in.
Law 43: Work on The Heart and Minds of Others.
Always work on a person's individual psychologies and appealing to a person's own vanity. Find out what a chick wants, what she emotionally responds to and push her emotional buttons.
Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect.
You on a date with your chick and she starts to flirt with a guy next to you. You find the most beautiful woman in the room, buy her a drink and start flirting with her and tell your chick, "Hey meet my new girlfriend." Mirror her moves to shove what she is doing to you in her face.
Boy that's about it. If any other guys have read the book, can you add to anything that I have mentioned here?