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Master Don Juan
posted 04-14-2001 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Raoul   Click Here to Email Raoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What happened to me today just reinforced the first rule of being sociable : Smiling.

I had to give out leaflets today to help out with some advertising. I wasn't too bothered about it, and I didn't expect anything to happen from it. However this is where my natural charm kicked in.

I wonder, have you noticed, that when someone smiles at you in a friendly way, you smile back automatically? It's something built in all of us. And today, while I was handing out the leaflets, I smiled at everyone I saw. Not a big-toothed grin, a simple, friendly smile. And sure enough, 98% of them SMILED BACK. No matter how sour or grumpy they looked, I got a smile out of most of them. Men, women, children, and the elderly. I got smiles.

Of course there was that other 2%, but you know right away if they don't respond civilly to an innocent smile, they're probably too stuck-up and weird anyway.

What is my point here? Simple. Next time you're at a party, or a club, or just walking down the street, if you see a woman that catches your fancy, smile. Simple as that. And you have an instant ice-breaker when she smiles back.

- Raoul



Don Juan
posted 04-14-2001 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jackal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's funny you should mention, because when a stranger smiles at me I usually don't smile back.
I'm not sure why.
When they smile at me, I'm usually too busy wondering why they smiled at me. Later I think back and regret not smiling back.
I suppose, according to what you wrote, this would make me "stuck-up" and "weird".
I agree with everything you wrote BTW.



Master Don Juan
posted 04-14-2001 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Monkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whenever someone smiles at me I'm usually taken back by it and dont smile in return. I always think they are up to something - thats whats become of the world



Don Juan
posted 04-14-2001 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cyclonus   Click Here to Email cyclonus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think smiling has a lot to do with ur attitude. If i'm frustrated or having a bad day, smiling will usually come off canned and people can tell. Like when ur supposed to smile in front of a camera, it doesn't look as natural. You just have to be light hearted, its all in the attitude. Of course some are self conscious of their teeth, so they are hesitant to smile, but i agree that it is very important to give off a good, sociable impression. Smiling is very powerful, it rubs off to the person who recieves ur smile.


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