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Master Don Juan
posted 07-30-2000 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for guitar player     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a simple techinique I've used a few times before with success. It breaks the ice easily and is a lot of fun for both of you.
Whenever a girl asks you to give/tell her something.. ask her to guess something first before you MIGHT do the thing she wants. here's an example.
I once met a girl who began to talk to me.. as we had chatted a while, she asked if I had some bubble gum with me.. I said "maybe", so she started to want it even more. When I told her I had bubble gum with me I told her she MIGHT have some after she guessed what's the make of the bubble gum. She kept guessing over and over again but didn't give me the rigth answer. She became anxious. She moved closer towards me and tried to search through my clothes for it. *Great opportunity for some KINO. She finally guessed it right.. and tought she MIGHT have some. Guess what I did? I put all what was left into my own mouth.. =) I gave her NOTHING.
That was a good example, and good evidence that women in general want something they MIGHT have.
that simple scenario broke the ice completely and made her "crazy"..

You can keep 'em guessing anytime, anywhere.. I tried it at school as we got our report cards and some girls came to me and started to ask my grades. I didn't tell them anything, I only said "guess". They started guessing and for my surprise they seemed to love what they were doing.

I'm sure this techinique is suitable for any situation.. after a woman said "do you love me?", has anyone of you said "guess" ??


"Live your life, that's what it's meant for." -me
"Risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing" -unknown

[This message has been edited by guitar player (edited 07-30-2000).]



Master Don Juan
posted 07-30-2000 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TestosteroneBoy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HAHAHAHHAHAH you had all the gum.

good advice but sheesh, that was cold. I am sure it probably made her really interested in you though.
POsters note that "it made her want it even more"

Getting a woman's interest is easy if you are interesting. This guy has it.



Master Don Juan
posted 07-30-2000 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MaMo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now that we are on the subject of take-away's I want to share a lil somethin that gets them extra hot for you! This only works when the chick is already interested in you though! Your about to end the date and its about that time where you are both feeling awkward on what happens next. Ok this is what you do! You go in slowly like your about to kiss her(she must want you to for this to work) then you touch your nose with hers coming SOOOOOO close to kissing her and then you back up, smile and tell her goodbye etc. After this she will be begging you to kiss her the next time she sees you!



Master Don Juan
posted 07-30-2000 10:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hidden-Danjer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

That was a nice little tip there!

Planning to implement it already!


*Hidden-Danjer* -Top english geezer

And you better believe it matey! :)



Don Juan
posted 07-30-2000 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MaMo...I have used that on many occasions......with enormous success!....it builds anticipation, which women love! All other guys...if you have a g/f or other companion that you are already comfortable kissing with....try this...its like Mamo's, but with a twist......do everything MaMo said, but instead of leaving...hang around for awhile......just let her feel your warm breath flow over her lips, you can move down her neck, letting your breath flow over her skin, it will send shivers down her spine. just linger the smallest possible distance between her lips and yours. when she leans in to kiss you, move back, but keep your lips close, when she pulls back, lean in, teasing her...almost like a tango...sooner or later, after about 5-10 seconds of this, one of you is going to crack, and if your a Don, you will wait until she kisses you.....

note- don't do this too long, or she will become frustrated and angry, when doing this, once-and-a-while just graze her lips with your lips or finger-tips, but no tongue!...this will keep her biting the line....and you can reel her in whenever you choose


Patience and gentlness is true power



Master Don Juan
posted 07-31-2000 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anti-Dump     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I am going to try that during this week. Interesting idea. It relates to being a mystery.

Very good post.




Master Don Juan
posted 08-01-2000 12:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shadowlord     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Another thing in the ways of 'holding back'. I've been seeing this one girl for about a month or so (the reason for my short demise ) and what I try to do is give her a little bit of wondering, make it seem as if I'm not near as interested as the first time I met her (and if it is the first time, make her wonder if you even like her at all). Then as the time progresses, bam, go in for it (still toying with her a little bit) She'll keep finding something new to do to YOU so she can keep you. She loves the mystery, and loves trying those new things she thinks of. Fun part is soon, she'll be trying it on you too.


P.S. For more fun, talk about a friend (girl) of yours that she doesn't know a little bit. She'll never tell you, but she'll be a little jealous of this person you talk about, no matter who they are.

3 words of wisdom from everyday occurences:
1. Just Do It (nike)
2. Do, or do not, there is no try (Yoda)
3. all of the above



Master Don Juan
posted 07-15-2001 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neophyte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, this post amused me a lot, so Bump this piece.



Master Don Juan
posted 07-15-2001 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for spank     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds pretty immature to me.



Don Juan
posted 07-26-2001 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheAssassin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rule #1 ....

Always go for the kiss on the 1st date.

It seperates the pretenders from the condenders.

Women are the competitive sex, use it against them

[This message has been edited by TheAssassin (edited 07-26-2001).]



Master Don Juan
posted 11-30-2002 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dip     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL thanx :x

i used this tip about last week, and i have a date next week


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