posted 07-13-2002 06:22 PM
One thing to keep in mind while you read my tips is that everything is meant to be a base knowledge that you can modify and/or expand upon as you gain experience. This is known as adding your own unique style. It�s the concept that is important. The sub-concepts, or the actual details and real time execution, rely heavily upon such factors as your situation and the girl. The following comments I make to Wheelin and Desperate will give you a glimpse of what I�m talking about.
Wheelin: That method of approach makes use of the concept seen in method 3c. It�s a slight variation that focuses the beginning of the approach/pick up on the surrounding situation as opposed to directly on her. Let�s call it 3c-Indirect.
Although method 3c-Indirect allows you to easily start a conversation in which you did not walk up to her, you still end up �beating around the bush� since the initial stages of rapport will usually concern the opening topic. Therefore you will have to work the topic back on to her in one way or another to get you out of �friendly chit chat� and into a more personal and sexual tone of rapport.
Additionally, it delays the introduction. The longer you wait to go through an intro, the longer and more awkward the rapport will be, even if it seems as if it is going smooth.
The reasoning behind this is purely psychological. If you don�t even know her name and she doesn�t even know yours, you are categorized as a stranger in her mind no matter how well the rapport is. An early intro breaks this initial barrier and familiarizes her with you, allowing her to develop a stronger emotional connection with you as you run your game.
All in all, method 3c-Indirect is not bad at all. It has its advantages as well as its disadvantages but once you understand the approach/ pick up, it�s basically all the same. It�s all about experimenting and varying in different situations until you get consistent results.
Desperate: Yes there are many situations where you can easily and naturally use methods 1 and 2. However, for most situations I recommend using method 3a. It�s a great way to gauge interest level by the way she says �hi� and it allows you to immediately go through an intro, and by now if you�ve read the above reply, you should know the effects of early versus delayed intros.
Mystic: I see you�ve been studying up on your Pimpology. Keep at it playa!
PS - DJ�s, I know it�s been a long while since I�ve posted any tips. I�ve realized that the tips I was giving had little to no sequential order or overall organization to them, and therefore might have made it difficult for some of you to benefit from them. So I decided to undertake a larger project as my contribution to this site, rather than merely posting a tip here and a tip there.
That project consists of writing several books that are focused on different aspects of the game, aspects which I�ll reveal in due time. Since conversation skills and effective rapport are the main weaknesses for most of you, the first book will be dedicated specifically to this and should be out very soon. The second book of the series will be dedicated to perfecting your approach and pick up techniques and will act as a complement to the first. I�ll try to have more information in the upcoming weeks. Layta playas�