posted 08-29-2001 03:59 PM
Hello everyone......I haven't been here for awhile......figured I would check in and read some posts.....
Looks like more than just a few guys are getting pretty frustrated with their efforts....very understandable, we've all been there at some time....
Here's a couple things that I thought some of you might find interesting; some observations I made over the years during my "wolf" days......
There is a big difference between being "desperate" and "impatient".....a desperate guy gives gifts, flowers, always offering to do favors, showering women with compliments, etc.,.....an impatient guy gets tired of the games, doesn't obsess, and always remembers that women are literally everywhere.....
It's good to learn some patience with women, most of them operate at a more relaxed pace than we do. It's this fact that tends to frustrate alot of you guys because you're ready to nail her right now.......She, on the other hand, is wanting to take things much slower, if for no other reason than to test your true desires. They want to bang you just as bad as you want to bang them, they just want to get to know you a little better before they take the plunge.
But some chicks like fast action, and knowing who they are and where you can find them can sometimes get you banging them alot quicker.
Slow, patient chicks: Bookstores,Churches, coffeeshops,libraries, clothes stores, museums, parks (if they're sitting alot) Nightclubs (if they're not dancing to fast music)......Girls that frequent these places alot usually like to take things slow, they don't like to be rushed, and in general will be turned off by a guy that comes on strong.......they really enjoy long conversations and appreciate patience.
Fast, action chicks: Hockey games, drag races, stock car races, boxing matches, workout gyms and aerobics classes.....women that are into this stuff are more energetic and like to see a quick resolution to things, in general, they don't like waiting and will be put-off by a guy who screws around waiting for the perfect moment to approach them.
During my younger days I spent many nights going to local stock-car races looking for hot girls. Many, many times, I'd meet one, watch a few races with her, and then end up in the back seat of my car with her later that same night. The kind of chick I'd marry? No way! But it sure was good, quick fun!
Try doing some observing of your own. It can be really interesting. If you go to a laundromat and see a looker there, watch for how she spends her time waiting for the cycles to finish. Does she sit for long periods reading a book or mag? If so, she's probably the slower type. Does she get up and pace, looking out the windows, going out for a smoke, or drum her fingers on the machine? This is a woman that likes faster action and resolution.
You can do the same thing at a grocery store.....does she look at every item carefully; checking prices and bargain shopping? Then she's slower and more deliberate. Does she walk fast, grabbing things quickly and just tossing stuff in her cart? This is a lady that doesn't like to wait.
Start observing, then act accordingly.....it always worked for me!
Go get 'em guys!!!>>>BJB