posted 03-28-2002 04:41 PM
Progression of an AFC to a Master DJ via the MatrixI�ve been chasing skirt ever since I hit puberty. My progress with the ladies has never been disheartening, but not stellar either. In all of those 14 years, I have never made more progress than the last six months under the DJ Bible.
In that short time I have noticed that my progression has hit several stages, which I think all AFC�s go thru until they hit that Master Don Juan status or getting wrestled down the LTR path.
Stage One: AFC
We all start out as an AFC. We live this life not knowing any better. By Trial and Error we do our best, learn little and complain a lot to our friends, who know little themselves.
Then this half thought enters our brain; there has to be a better way. This thought does not force us to take any action. Again we go back to the ineffective method of Trail and Error. Finally there is the culmination for factors that cause us to actively search for the solution.
As an AFC you see the world like this
Fear of rejection.
Fear of approaching women.
Focus on only one woman.
You view her as the prize to be had.
Pedestal worship of a woman.
Not knowing what to say to women.
Letting the woman control the situation.
Not even attempting to get the number.
You are unsatisfied with life/girls.
Stage Two: Neo-DJ
After much searching we find SoSuave.com. We then become Neo-DJ�s. Neo, is Latin for new. Some neophytes will take the blue pill an learn and progress. Others take the red pill and will reject what they read and hear about the truth.
The Blue pill.
You read, you post. Words like KINO and AFC haunt you. Someone mentions the DJ Bible and you hit pay dirt. You read more and this new outlook on life starts to form; only you don�t know it yet. Just how far down does the rabbit�s hole go? You understand what you read and you know it is right but acting on the advice is hard.
As a Neo-DJ you see the world like this
You are still apprehensive about approaching women, but you do it anyways.
You�ve got some new tricks up your sleeve.
You read everything you can, post and seek advise from the board members.
You don�t have the skills to know whose advice is correct.
You get lambasted by GIO. �
It�s a new dawn.
Stage Three: Don Juan.
As a DJ, you are beginning to understand the AFC concept, and realize that this is not what you want to be. Your posts become more precise and are able to ask the right questions. Officially you have posted less than 50 times so your insignia show that you are officially a Don Juan. Girls will always be a mystery, but understanding how to get and keep one is becoming less of one. Someone in the forum tells you not to try to bend the spoon, because the spoon is not even there.
As a Don Juan you see the world like this.
You start to look forward to the approach.
You aren�t totally smooth yet, but your confidence is building.
You contribute to the posts and can see what you should do in your fellow DJ�s situations.
You�re growing.
You realize that the DJ Bible isn�t just about picking up chicks.
You see yourself improving with the ladies and in other aspects of your life.
You are actively pursuing more than one girl at a time.
Your success ratio is improving.
You see the AFC in your friends.
Your unique pickup technique develops
Stage Four: Master Don Juan
Officially you have posted more 50 times. You may or may not have earned this title, but there it is anyways. You realize that the spoon IS NOT there and that you are the PRIZE. You no longer Place girls on the pedestal.
As a Master Don Juan you reply to more posts than you write. You spend more time on thinking of something positive to contribute to the DJ Bible than posting your questions on how to get girls. You ARE pursuing more than one girl at a time. When you Next! a girl, you find another one soon. You see the AFC in everything all around you.
Girls now respond to you differently. There is something about you that they can�t put their finger on. You are mysterious.
You have no fear in talking to or finding something to talk about with the women.
Contribution from NightWing: You're very selective about what type of girl you hook up with and you understand that a woman has to bring more to the table than just a big azz and a smile.
Stage Five: ??????
I have not progressed from Stage Four. So, what lies beyond?
Please, gentleman, explore the Fifth stage with me. Also add to the behaviors that define us through this transformation.
�I imagine, that right now you are feeling a bit like Alice, tumbling down the rabbit hole?��
Let me tell you why you�re here. You�re here because you know something. What you know you can�t explain. But you feel it. You�ve felt it your entire life, that there is something wrong with the world. You don�t know what it is. But its there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me.��
Unfortunately no one can be, told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself.�� after this, there is no turning back, you stay in wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes� - Laurence Fishburne
[This message has been edited by T Dog (edited 04-05-2002).]
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