How to Start Conversations with Women Without Rejection

by Keenan Cullen

Hey Man,

I'm about to reveal my VERY BEST technique for starting a conversation with a woman. Not only does it guarantee you won't get rejected, but it's actually the way women PREFER to be approached by a man!

But before I do, let me ask you this:

If you think about it, what is it that REALLY stops you from striking up a conversation with a woman for the first time?

What's your biggest fear?

Maybe you're scared of being rejected.

Or maybe you're afraid of looking "foolish" and having everyone around watch you.

If so, let me ask you this:

Have you ever found yourself thinking: "I just don't know what to say to start a conversation with a woman I want to meet."

In fact, "What do I say?" is a question I get a lot.

And you know what I hear?

"I'm scared of being rejected, so I want to know the perfect thing to say."

Well, guess what?

There is NO perfect thing to say to a woman that's going guarantee she'll want to have a conversation.

Here's why:

It's not what you say that's important. What's really important is your "approach" — or your attitude when you start a conversation with a woman.

So here's the first thing you need to know about...

Why Directly Approaching Women Is NOT The Best Route To Start A Conversation And What Is!

Sure, directly walking up to women and starting a conversation is a great way to overcome your fears. But if you actually want to have a woman be open to meeting up with you again, there's a much better "approach" to take.

To understand the reason this "approach" works, it helps to know the "psychology" of how women respond to being approached...

So imagine what it's like to be a woman for a moment:

If you noticed a guy walking up to you in your peripheral vision, you'd know he obviously WANTS something from you, wouldn't you? So would it just be a matter of finding out what THAT something is.

And guess what?

Attractive women know immediately when a guy's approaching them because he finds them attractive and is interested.

It registers on their "radar" very, very quickly.

In fact, most of the time, a woman will know what a guy wants before he even opens his mouth. So he's actually telegraphed his intentions just by the way he walked up to her.

Is there something wrong with this?

Not necessarily... but here's the real secret:

Women don't like being "hit on" (or having a guy express "sexual interest") until AFTER they're attracted to him. So if you walk directly up to a woman out of the blue, generally you're expressing your sexual interest by doing that.

Of course, you can use techniques to break that expectation and show her you're not sexually interested — even if you really are... which I personally consider "manipulative".

But why bother with that when there's an easier, natural, and more authentic way...

Here's My VERY BEST Technique For Starting Conversations With Women...

I call it: "Crossing Paths".

In fact, this is the way women love THE MOST when meeting men.

If you ask a woman about how she loves to be approached by a guy, she'll probably say something like this:

"I like it when it just happens... accidentally."

And though sometimes women don't consciously know what they want, this IS the truth.

Women want to meet men by "accident" — which basically means that it's NOT planned out ahead of time. Instead, the meeting and interaction just "happens" in the moment.

Being able to do this or allow it to happen "sweeps women off their feet" because it's real, authentic, and non-calculative.

So how do you do it?

First, you DON'T go out of your way to talk to a woman.


I know "Pick-Up Artists" look at it differently. But would you go to a different country just to start a conversation with a woman?

Yeah... if you were desperate.

Well, walking up to a woman is basically the SAME thing on a smaller scale.

So unless she gave you the "eye contact signals", don't do it.

Second, if a woman is in earshot and you have time, just take the opportunity.

Instead of directly approaching a woman, you only start conversations with women who are already in close contact with you.

You ONLY talk to women who "cross your path".

Here's the three basic steps on how to do this:

STEP #1: Mind Your Surroundings

One of the key things I teach is not only to be aware of what people who come into close contact with you are doing but how they're responding to you.

To do this, you use just your peripheral awareness.

You know how you can notice things in the "corner of your eye" without having to directly look at them?

That's what I mean.

You need to work on developing this ability so you can go about your business while noticing what's happening around you at the same time — and all without reacting to it.

Because when you get really good at this, you'll start noticing how women respond to you when they come into close contact with you.

The signs start becoming obvious.

STEP #2: Think Out Loud

Now, have you ever noticed that when someone says something and you're the only one around, you almost feel "obligated" to reply?

It's almost like you'd feel rude if you didn't say anything, don't you? It's like you'd be "snubbing" a complete stranger, and who wants to be rude?

In fact, it often seems to be the case that most people are even "nicer" to strangers than people they actually know.

So when a woman comes into close contact with you and you're somewhat stationary, like in a grocery store line-up, make a short impersonal statement that relates to the situation as if you're thinking out loud or talking to yourself.

This may sound strange at first. I mean, won't she think you're a crazy guy who talks to himself?

Not if you're genuine and you say it with conviction, she won't.

Here's the reality:

Doing this is like giving her an invitation. And not only that, it's a non-threatening invitation because you're not even facing her... or even talking directly to her.

In fact, it's like you're indirectly welcoming her into your experience, which communicates all the "right" things.

For example, you may pick-up an interesting gadget from the check-out rack and say, "Damn! That's cool." And then just start looking it over.

STEP #3: Read The Vibe

Next, what you want to do is notice how she's reacting to what you said using just your peripheral awareness. So you don't even look directly at her.

If she's not interested, she'll just continue on with what she was doing. So there's no big rejection. I mean, it's not like you were talking directly to her or anything, so how can she "reject" you?

No, she just didn't take the "invitation".

Big deal!

But most times, she'll give you her attention in one of two ways:

Either she'll respond by saying something, which lets you know that it's now OK to look at her and get into a conversation.

Or she'll look at you because she's curious, but won't say anything. She may just be shy, so that's you're cue to actively invite her into the conversation.

For example, perhaps you'd say: "Look at this thing," as you look at her. "Any ideas on how someone would've come up with the idea for this thing?"

I've found this to be the very best way to casually meet women without coming off "too forward" or "weird". It's safe and non-threatening for both: you and her.

In fact, you'll be seen as a "regular" guy, not some creepy "Pick-Up Artist" who's only interested in getting in her pants.

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About the Author: Hi, my name's Keenan Cullen, and I hope you profited from my article. I'm passionate about becoming the very best communicator I can possibly be. And if you want to learn more about what I've discovered about dealing and relating with people effectively, visit my blog or sign-up for my free weekly articles here >>